my girlfriend"s parents came to know about our relationship.now my gf wants me to tell everything to my parents.i love her and want to marry her . but i dont have the courage to speak to my parents . what should i do?
2007-04-14 21:39:38 · 22 answers · asked by ketan rana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
RUN !!!!!!
when the parents get envolved.......
everything gets $##&& up
2007-04-14 22:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ron K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, sweetie-
Listen-
they are going to find out eventually,
so I guess you pretty much have to look at it this way-
which is the lesser of two evils?
1-Not telling them and them hearing it from someone or several someones?
As opposed to
2-Them hearing it from their own child?
I agree with all the others that YOU MUST tell them,,,,,
I personally would be rather salty if I knew that my child
had discussed future plans with the b/f's or g/f's parents before ever even thinking of me-
Is there a problem in your families that this is a Romeo and Juliette type of thing?
If it is that big of an issue-
Talk it over with someone close to the family,
that you can trust, and ask their advice on how you think
your parents should be handled in this situation-
Love is love, follow your heart,,,,
don't deny your love-
But don't deny your parents the truth either,
they brought you into this world, don't they at least
deserve that much from their own child?
I wish you love and luck,,,
bl~
2007-04-14 21:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by trinity3x3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents love you or should love you no matter what...They may no always agree with the decisions we make in life but that is just because they love us and they don't want us to suffer sometimes what they have suffered...They always want the best for their children...I say put all the cards on the table if you really love this girl and hope that your parents won't be to upset...But this is not about your parents, it's about the love you share with this other person that matters most...I know that if my daughter were to say these things to me I wouldn't like it but I have always told her that there isn't anything that she could do in life that would ever make me stop loving her...No matter what...It doesn't mean I wouldn't try to show her options or solutions to this it just means that the decision that she would make is altimately her decision and she will have to live with that...I would rather her be honest and truthful than to lie or hide who or what she wants to do...I just love my kid with all my heart...
2007-04-14 21:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by ramorgan1958 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look boy,
first you should write your age.
If you are grown enough then, no problem go and tell your parents.
Don't be too late unless you will suffer.
Don't forget girl's family know about you and may marry their girl with someone else.
Just think for your love and tell to your parents, they will think about it, and you will get your love. That's my wish.
I too had suffered from this.
bye
2007-04-15 00:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Abhishek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to attempt the two taking your mom and dad out to dinner and tell them you like them to fulfill somebody you have been seeing and then tell them their, or you are able to convey your lady pal homestead to dinner or some thing and tell them their the two way stress the be conscious somebody. in case you think of they may well be homophobic i'd propose the assumption of homosexuality to them until eventually now you come out and notice their reactions, in the event that they have undesirable reactions i does no longer tell them because of the fact it may harm your relationship inclusive of your mom and dad, in the event that they react nicely or you already understand that they are not homophobes, then decide for it! I want you terrific of success! XD
2016-10-03 00:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by bebber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fu*k your parents dude. They dont live your life, you do. This is a stupid question if you have ANY brains at all. Do what is right for YOU, not your parents, or anybody else. Only YOU have to deal with the results.
2007-04-14 21:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by giggitygiggity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to hold off for a while. You'll find that in life that it's often better to not speak about things too soon, but to be a little patient for the right moment.
2007-04-14 21:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell them when you feel comfortable doing so. If they're abusive or racist, or are going to have a problem with it, wait until they are ready. It doesn't seem you're ready to marry anyone if you can't handle this small problem. Be careful, take your time.
2007-04-14 21:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by slert1985 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See one day u will have to tell ur parents. so go ahead n tell ur parents.
Take ur friends help or someone who is very close to ur parents who will tell ur parents.
Best of luck,
Dude
2007-04-14 22:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by D Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why?? What can they do? They aren't going to kill you are they? If you love her they should accept her & try to love her too. Seriously, they should be happy for you. I would think, everyone needs someone to love. I'm guessing there is something you aren't telling us, so what is it?
2007-04-14 22:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not tell them i sure you are old enough to have a girlfriend if you know you love lit them know, you go to them and say mom dad am in love with this girl and i want you guys to get to know her i sure they will love her
2007-04-14 22:00:13 · answer #11 · answered by jesse s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋