2007-04-14 21:38:20 · 11 answers · asked by bea bear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Without knowing what happened, how long ago, and what your sister meant to do its hard to know whether to forgive her.
But one thing I do know, as your parents get older, and pass away, the ones you turn to are the ones you grew up with, your family. Unless it was truely unforgivable - and only you would know that - try to communicate with her. Life too short to hold grudges.
2007-04-14 21:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep.. i know it's hard though.
but the forgiveness is not for her... it's for you. It's harder for you to hang onto that hate. Right now, who is feeling crappy?? You because you are mad at her, or her because she is cruddy sister... probably you... right???
So, if you forgive her it's like you let go of your anger... it's not giving her anything, it's getting rid of your baggage.
My cousin slept with my high school/college boyfriend and it took me soooooo long to realize what I just wrote to you.
Also, it says in the Bible, that Jesus cannot forgive your sins until you have forgiven those who have wronged you... so, I'd rather forgive a cruddy sister than not be forgiven for all of the crap that I do!!!
Good luck and God Bless.
2007-04-14 21:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by mommy of 3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
with a bit of luck its purely a piece. as being the two 14 and an older sis, i will c why she would not choose upload u- attempting to nonetheless tutor a gud occasion, being ashamed, accountable,or to tutor u the ceremony direction w/o being uncovered to that variety of stuff from ur own sis.yet i nonetheless wudn't blame u if u snooped around in her privateness- because u have been curious.plenty adolescents act like ur sis so its standard, yet that doesn't mean that its ideal.if those issues gets out of hand &ur sis well being / or sum1 is being endangered like say she needs to even have intercourse w/ a guy relatively badly and function a toddler...u shud tell ur dad and mom. so it would not finally end up isnto a family contributors disaster.for now ignore approximately her techniques and tutor ur integrity. u can ask suggestion from pals to c how they wud or are dealn w/ it.consistent with probability u cud provide tricks to tutor that u no wat she's doin w/o ideal out asserting it-as a risk, to decrease her naughty techniques
2016-10-22 05:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your sister so forgive her. Everyone had done things to their siblings as kids. Remember forgiveness is not just for your sister. It is for you to move on within yourself.
2007-04-14 21:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been forgiving my younger sister ... for most of our lives ... and I'll keep right on ... because she's my sister ...
2007-04-14 21:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Amethyst_Moonfairy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My sister did that to me, we have not spoken in 11 years F--- Her !
2007-04-14 22:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep unfotuanatly family problems un like problms with other people dont go away unless u do forgive
2007-04-14 21:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by bordem 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't pick your relatives...i haven't talked to my oldest sister for 5 years because she is no good for me.
2007-04-14 21:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes forgive and thou shall be forgiven
2007-04-14 21:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister is for life !!
2007-04-14 21:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by eviot44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋