Ladies, I get along best with women and most of the people in my life aren't suitable for friends (no time, etc). I'm keen to meet people offline for friendship. Now I've asked once or twice and one time I was told that she was interested in friendship, but she wanted to get to know me more. What exactly does that mean? Is that a definite yes, provided that while she's getting to know me she doesn't change her opinion? And what should I write to her to make feel more comfortable meeting me? I usually just ask how she's going? But I don't know enough about her to really get a fantastic convo going. Thanks
2007-04-14 21:31:08 · 5 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's a yes to friendship.
Nothing more - nothing less.
Maybe nobody else really asks her how she's going? Maybe you are a really good listener.
She's being cautious, and this is a good thing. I think it is reasonable to be cautious about people you meet over the internet.
I think if you just continue to write to her and tell her about yourself, also ask her some questions about herself - general things - what she likes - books - movies - music - tastes in things - what she thinks about this situation, that situation, this guy on Yahoo! Answers who always has quick smart alec answers for everything - what a pain?! - etc. you'll find that you develop a friendship with her quite well.
This COULD be the start of a relationship.
2007-04-14 21:33:28 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show up as what you are. Pretending will make the friendship seems so fake. If they don't like you, it should be their problem rather than be yours. In the future, you might found out some of the people who didn't like you were harming their own friends and you will thankful that you are not their victim. Just get along with yourself, first, and the the other' secondly.
I tried to nice to everybody and statistically shown that there is 2% people who will love to hate us for no reason, so? there is 98% people who will like us and love us for whatever we are.
Tips to meet people offline, (for the different sex), try to meet in the crowded area like a cafe, avoid the night trip, ask a friend to accompany you. If you are not comfortable, just make an excuse (well, you have to lie for your own goodness) to get away from the troubled water. (for the same sex), most kinda same just suit yourself with the conversation's flow.
Wish you luck.
2007-04-14 22:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 08:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her these questions. What's your hurry, are you getting too old too fast? No one is going to meet you at the bar after a few conversations.
2007-04-14 21:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by Over The Rainbow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't feel comfortable enought to risk her safety. Just keep chatting. one day you will meet your friend.
2007-04-14 21:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by ordain_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋