Ladies, if a guy and yourself chat online, whether it be through a community site or msn for about a week everyday for about half an hour each time, or just throughout the full day say 8-9 messages throughout the day. Would you block the guy if he suggested having lunch/coffee sometime (sometime as in just throwing the idea out there, whether she wants to hold off is fine)?
Personally I don't think it's a blockable offence but one girl appears to have blocked me (even though her response was practically a yes).
What do you think? Am I going about this wrong? I'm not trying to attract these ladies, I'd be happy just making a friend out of them.
2007-04-14 21:25:39 · 4 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Could be more to it than you know.
Let me run some scenarios by you ...
(1) She's said yes. Then she goes - oh sh*t I didn't mean to - I don't know how to tell him I don't want to ... blah ... has a panic attack over nothing ... then blocks you cos it's easier to go find someone else to chat with.
(2) She's said yes. BF (or boss - or is the boss her BF?) discovers this internet chat thing and is very cross with her. Demands that she cease and desist and as a result she has blocked you.
(3) She's been lying to you. She's a boy. Or whatever. She doesn't want you to find out. You got too close ... under her skin (or his skin). She (or he) blocks you.
(4) She's had a bad experience before. She went for coffee with someone who turned out to be a stalker who has stolen her identity or an axe murderer or something nasty and while she likes you she's now convinced you are a stalking identity thief or an axe murderer.
(5) Her identity has been stolen and you have been chatting to an identity thief or axe murderer for the past few days.
2007-04-14 21:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-20 03:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by audrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds weird to me but hey she must hate coffee.
2007-04-14 21:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously her response wasn't as close to being a yes as you ASSumed it was...
2007-04-14 21:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋