I hang around normal male and female friends. But I always feel out of place. Im often find myself thinking about what it would be like to be with a guy. Im still questioning myself. I really would like to talk to someone my age who can help a lot and seriously.
2007-04-14 20:28:32 · 10 answers · asked by newtothis00 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'm 16, a couple years younger than you, and i am openly gay. if you think you may be gay, you often experience the kind of feelings over a long period of time that coincide with the stages involved with coping with a traumatic event. first comes denial, then anger, then bargaining, then depression, then acceptance. not all of these stages occur, and not all occur in the same order or for the same length of time. some may occur simultaniously. for me, the denial stage went on for years, greatly dwarfing the others. the anger stage for me was brief. i didn't go through bargaining. depression was the second longest, and i often would contemplate suicide, particularly because i felt that i was letting down god and my family. acceptance was abrupt for me, but i still waited to come out for about a year. my advice: just be honest with yourself. look at everything about you with a neutral approach. live without caring for who you are as a person, and it will become to you fairly soon whether or not you are gay. i certainly hope i can help you, because i know difficult this can be.
2007-04-14 20:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am like that to a point. I have always felt out of place hanging around my straight male friends, but i don't question the reason why. I am gay and have accepted it as if it was no big deal because......it's not. I feel comfortable around them now simply because i understand where that uncomfortableness comes from and i just push it aside and enjoy their company. We have been friends for 12 years now and although homosexuals are not their favorite people in the world i consider them my brothers and they feel the same way about me! Be honest with yourself that is the only way that you will ever be comfortable in your own skin!
2007-04-15 03:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It is like that for many young men who have not dealt with their sexual orientation (it was for me). You want to fit in but you know that there is something within you that says I think I would like to try sex with another male (usually physical attraction). If you need someone to talk to on a more personal level or thru e-mail.... please email me.... if anything I can help guide you thru what can be a very difficult time in your life. You can turn that around to become the most enjoyable time of your life.... wish I were 18 and coming out!!!!.
2007-04-15 04:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by iszee4real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God made man to join with woman.God did not intend Man with man or woman with woman, that is an abomination unto the Lord. Look what he did to Sodom and Gemorrah, a city full of every evil of that sort.Romans 1:26-27 (King James Version)
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26For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
2007-04-15 10:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by KaeMae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you age is, it's totally normal to have feelings for the same sex. you just been thinking of experimenting and it's normal to experiment several times.
you should not question so much, you have to jump in and try it to find your feelings, it's all totally normal.
just have fun and Play Safe! Always!!!
2007-04-15 04:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Just me! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If very young that's normal. Just trying will prove your are gay or not.
That's normal dude.
And just like you we are millions. The gay parade in Sao Paulo, Brazil, last year gathered 1,8 million people!
So, you're kind of normal.
Be happy.
2007-04-15 03:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by Welington F 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your age? Now you are getting picky, eh? Okay, us wise old ones are not to be listened to? I understand.
2007-04-15 03:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was like this but now i am starting to accept myself good luck it just takes time
2007-04-15 03:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by big 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep praying! it will happen! (the law of attraction)!
2007-04-15 03:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat is normal ne way but that is something u have 2 think about
2007-04-15 05:00:08 · answer #10 · answered by petevasquez2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋