i lied to my mom to go see my bf?

Question

im 14 and lied to my mom about just staying @ my friends house but we really left to see our bf @ their school
should I tell her or what could i do but in the way that she wont get mad

Answer 1

You are going to mess up the trust your mom have for you. If you can't see your boyfriend at a decent time, then you do not need to see him.

Answer 2

shes gonna be mad if you tell her or you could just wait until youre all grown up and married and be like hey mom u remeber when i was 14, well i lied to you and said i was at a friends house, but we went to go see our bfs, but i still loved you, i hope youre not mad. she will have no idea what ur talking about.

Answer 3

You should tell her and not do that again. You are very young and you don't want to mess up your life now. You seem like a sweet kid because you obviously feel guilty, that is why you are asking this question-- you feel remorse.

She will be mad but she will calm down! So many things happen to kids your age now--bad things (not trying to scare you) ...but stay right, play by the rules, study hard, go to a good college, and get a good job. Your life will be set.

Good luck!

Answer 4

If you really under, guilty consciousness, please tell her, she will appreciate you, for your honesty. You should know your Mothers mentality, being her child, and the way she behaves. If you feel that your Mother really gets angry, and get mad even after your confession, then drop the matter. Do not make the thing more complicated. But do not repeat. Good luck.

Answer 5

u should tell her the truth because the mother always understand their children and she'll get over it. if u don't tell her soon or later she'll be even more mad because u didn't tell the truth.u know what they said if u lied or hide something, your family or someone will always know thje truth so it's much better to tell the truth always it fells really comfortable.

Answer 6

im 14 too and i have lied several times, i find the best way to just tell her the truth, because holding it in causes...

1.Heartbreak
2.Low self esteem
3.loss of trustworthyness



tell her

hold it in and you will get into even more trouble!

Answer 7

You should tell your mom. When you tell her, apologize & admit that you made a mistake. (For example: "Mom, I realize that I have made a mistake by lying to you and I owe you an apology for it. I love you mom and I don't want you to be mad or upset with me over it."
That would be a good place to begin. Of course she will ask you about it and just be honest when you tell her.

Answer 8

basically you should think of the consequences if you told your mother and if it would really be worth it, and from what i got you were with your friend, not at her house which is basically the same thing and your mother cant do anything about what happens at a friends house, and teqnically your not lying because your bf is really a friend =)

Answer 9

Just tell her even if she gets mad or not! U should never lie to your parents because if you never tell them and they find out and u didnt tell them they get more mad then they would have been if you did tell them! so tell them and they might not get mad since you told the truth and told them yourself!

Answer 10

has she found out because if she hasn't then its fine just don't tell... i never tell and im just fine
but i effed up and ended had my friend end it tonight and i miss him like uhsjkdghsfjkgh ughhhh i hate this


but just dont tell ur mom but if u have to then just say i went to go see my friends cousins or something