A new hairstyle or open up and change your outfit to something sexy. Give eye contact alot to the person you are interested in This should help!!!
2007-04-14 19:13:29
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answered by milly 2
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Well, baby - you have to step out a little, and interact. In order to have a friend, you must be a friend. There's just no way around it, honey. That doesn't mean you have to change who you are. Its okay to be quiet. But you will have to open yourself up to some healthy changes. The only way people get to know one another, is by communicating. Someone has to initiate contact. Also, people gauge if and how they will approach you - by measuring your approachability (I think I just made a new word, here. lol). If you seem quiet and withdrawn, people may think you don't want to be bothered. Just remember that your bodylanguage speaks volumes. You don't have to jump in with both feet. Take small steps; just keep walking, you know. When someone makes eye contact with you, don't look down. Maintain eye contact, however brief - and SMILE. That's like saying, "Its okay - I don't mind that you noticed me." Also, when someone starts a conversation, smile and respond. You don't have to say alot - just come across friendly and unruffled, when they approach you. Those are just a couple examples. Let a situation unfold naturally.
Be comfortable in your skin. Much shyness and timidness comes from personal insecurities and low self-esteem. On some level, you aren't comfortable with yourself - and so, tend to "shrink" within yourself. People see that, and leave you alone, because that's what they think you want. Once you become more confident and comfortable with who you are - you will exude that in your demeanor, and people will be drawn to you. So work on that, baby. The rest will fall into place. :)
2007-04-15 02:40:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Get a myspace with a beautiful main picture, and when guys befriend you, talk back online - it's easy and informal because it's online, and work up from there. You'll get the occasional creep, but it could work.
Or you could find a way in your regular life to become more comfortable, take up a sport, activity or hobby that typically has more members of the opposite sex. It's tough, I'm a shy guy and it's difficult, but once you open up and take a couple risks it gets easier and you'll feel good about yourself.
-J
2007-04-15 02:14:12
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answered by Anonymous
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Everyone is noticed. If you want to communicate with someone, just do it. Talk to people. Many, if not most people tend to be shy, to try to avoid making the first moves, the opening statement. So you be the one who asks how someone is, how they like this weather, what they think of whatever is happening somewhere in the world, or what about the latest music or fashion or movie? Ask and truly listen to the answer. Good luck
2007-04-15 02:13:00
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answered by judgebill 7
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i dont know, being quite suks because you knnow how great a person you are but other people have to figure it out or hemselves and they often get it wrong. They think you like to be alone and ignored.
2007-04-15 02:12:09
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answered by ***HDK*** 4
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Smokey eye makeup and some shiny lip gloss- works for me!
2007-04-15 02:11:32
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answered by ajax47 2
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wear something very interesting but i like quite girls they are usually the sweetist
2007-04-15 02:11:50
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answered by Anonymous
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join clubs, events and fun stuff with other folks. just be you.
2007-04-15 02:11:51
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answered by just hanging around 5
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when you find out tell me. i have the same problem.
2007-04-15 02:11:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Translation is...
2007-04-15 02:11:31
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answered by Over The Rainbow 5
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