people im not talking about miscarrying im talking about my baby dieing!!?

Answer 1

This question made no sense, so I had to go back and look at your other quesion to see what you are talking about. You should add more so we all know what you are talking about. I am still a bit confused even reading the other question.

I am sorry that you got pregnant at such a young age. I assume you are pregnant and the baby is not alive? Or is dieing? I am sorry you have had to go through such things at such a young age.

My prayers are with you. Hugs to you. I would offer you some Kleenex if I were there and some hugs.

Answer 2

uhm. ok I had to go read your other question to piece this puzzle together. You asked if you should feel bad about losing your baby and then got angry that people thought you meant you miscarried, and made another post to clarify yourself.

so, to answer your question, yes, you should be grieving.

However there are STAGES to grief. It can start with numbness, shock and then progress into anger and slowly melt into sadness.

Grief is an odd thing. There seems to be different phases you go through while grieving and in each stage you feel different things. Typically in the first stage there is shock and denial, til it sinks in. Then anger . and then sadness. But not everyone is the same.
People work through it on their own time in their own way.

most people go through a whole gammut of emotions while grieving.

Nobody can tell you how to grieve, or what stage you should be in right now. Just get counseling if you need help.

Answer 3

I had to read your other questions to try to get the whole picture and I'm sorry but I still don't know exactly what you mean. The loss of a baby always hurts every mother at any age. I don't know exactly what you mean when you talk about your baby dieing. Is someone pressuring you to have an abortion? Is is a difficult pregnancy with complications? If you gave us more details, we could probably help you more. In any case,I feel for you

Answer 4

Oh sheesh.
Why do people like you come in here and make a joke of real life situations?
In previous questions, you have said youre 18.. then 16.. then 13. You have even gone as far as to say you lve in a hostel but went home for a family around the world trip!?!?
And to your shock horror.. you found out youre pregnant.. but youre a virgin?!?!?
And the question about should you miss your ex? OMFG youre an idiot!
If you are 13, you should be playing with dollies and you dont have ex's at that age.
GROW THE HELL UP.

Answer 5

I've been in that very situation, I was 6 month's pregnant, went to the Dr for a routine check up , and there was no heartbeat, found out the baby was dead.

Went to the hospital and they induced my labor, and I had a normal delivery.

I don't know about other states, but in Illinois, they call it INFANT DEATH , not miscarriage or stillborn.

I'm sorry for your lost.

Answer 6

i had to read your other question to understand this one. sweetie, its completley normal to grieve if you've lost a child no matter how old you are! if you are having a hard time dealing with it, (which i would assume you are) mabye you should go through some counseling. what i really dont understand, is just an hour ago, you posted a question about missing your ex....if you really did have a baby that died, why would you care about your ex at the moment?

Answer 7

Its a miscarriage until 24 weeks, after that its a stillbirth. I am not sure what your question is though. I hope everything is alright.

A loss is a loss at any age and if you lost your baby I am sorry and you have every right to grieve for it. I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 8

I looked back at your previous questions. I am sorry you are losing your baby. It must be very difficult and very confusing, especially because you are so young. At 13, your body just might not have been able to handle this! You should speak to an adult you can trust.

Answer 9

If your child dies before you give birth to it, then it is, technically considered a miscarriage.

I don't know the full thing of what you are tlaking about, so I'll have a look back through your recent questions to update myslf.

Answer 10

THERE ARE NO SPECIFIC GUIDELINES OR RULES USED BUT ITS USUALLY AFTER 20 WEEKS OF GESTATION, THAT IF A BABY DIES IN THE WOMB OR IN LABOR, IT IS CONSIDERED STILLBORN.
MISCARRIAGE IS USUALLY GIVEN TO THAT BEFORE.
SOME WILL STILL CALL IT A MISCARRIAGE, BUT IT DEPENDS ON YOU.
EITHER WAY A PREGNANCY IS ENDED MUCH TOO EARLY AND WITH NO BABY TO HOLD.
IF THIS HAPPENED TO YOU, I AM SORRY. I KNOW YOUR PAIN. MY SON DIED WHEN I WAS 21 PREGNANT WITH HIM.