for me to date a guy who's 16?
(I'm 14)
i've never dated before. what's going on in his head? (well of course it varies from guy to guy...but in general?)
2007-04-14 17:09:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yep
2007-04-14 17:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely....sex, sex ,sex. Sorry. This is the age that boys are thinking of that one thing and when and how and with who and it is really their priority. It is too bad that our society even encourages this at younger and younger ages and it has become an obsession with the culture today. The days when 14 yr. old girls played with Barbie dolls is gone. That shows my age, that's what we did. Serious! Dating was not thought of. So, I think it's too young for any type of dating. Group outings to movies, games and friends houses with parents at home are fine, but one on one dating should be later. What do you have to look forward to? Dating at 16-17 for a girl, slowly with strict rules on where you go and when you get home and respect from the boy and then proms and then dating seriously when you are 18 to 21 because education and your future are the most important things you need to think about...I know most people don't seem to but, it is! You need to know who you are dating and that takes maturity on your part as well as his.
So, the fact that you are dating at 14 is too young to know what the boy is thinking about. These things shouldn't be on your mind and you shouldn't have to worry about such things at such a tender age....it's too young. That is my opinion.
2007-04-15 00:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, and it does seem odd for me to see ages difference like that, but honestly that stuff doesn't baother me anymore, most of my friends and most of the guys I flirt with are WAY TOO old for me (I'm 16 like your beau). But, he may have some sexual tendencies on his mind, but do not let him fullfill them, at least not while you're 14.... Or 15... maybe a few innocent things as 16... 17 meh.... 18 better age to fool around... yeah.
2007-04-15 00:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm sorry, what goes on in his head does not vary from guy to guy, but maybe he does like you. Personally, I think you are to young to date. Maybe getting together in a group, might be fun and you could get to know him better. Have funâ¥â¥
2007-04-15 00:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by kattsmeow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the age difference is too big- but get to know him a little bit better first. Find out what's going on in his head for yourself.
2007-04-15 00:14:00 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's not a big age difference, but be careful. Has he dated a lot? He's male and full of raging hormones, so be careful. Do a double date first.
2007-04-15 00:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Shrew 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you should wait and date someone your own age. Guys that age think about the same thing(i hope you know what i mean). If he is a sophmore nas ur a little 8 grader its not right.
2007-04-15 00:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by Traffic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At sixteen he wants to think about sex with females...
Do your parents allow you to date at 14?
Do not do any sneaking around ... you will get caught and the consequences are not good!
2007-04-15 00:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by missellie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, because he's older then you, he will mature quicker and therefore will be more ready for sex and you may not want that pressure. An older guy as your first relationship, is not a wise choice.
2007-04-15 00:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by RuneReader124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a personal decision, but yeah two years difference isnt that big of a deal.
2007-04-15 00:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by bseastrand 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, You guys don't anything really in common that a big age and interest gap at that age
Justin
2007-04-15 00:22:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋