By nature anus is not for sex.. Though for some its OK.
Actually its concentration of nervers that gives sexual pleasure and anus does not have such concentration of nerves.
2007-04-18 06:48:13
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answered by Anonymous
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2016-07-19 08:33:36
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answered by ? 3
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This Site Might Help You.
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How come anal sex in porn looks so DAMN good ;but in real life its Uncomfortable for some?
The only porn I watch is anal porn and everytime I watch it I really want to do it too but when I try it's not easy!
2015-08-07 02:05:22
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answered by Anonymous
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Porn is really hot and amazing at times, but it's merely a rather shallow reflection of real life sex. Even with all it's "awkwardness, baggage and the ordeals of everyday life" sex with your partner is the best!! You can deepen your love and get far inside your partners soul for the best, mind-blowing experiences ever! Doesn't work like that all the time, but even less mind-blowing sex is REAL which trumps porn most anytime! Although, I believe porn can play an important role in a hot sex life! Both with your partner and solo. ;)
2016-03-13 23:05:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Use lots and lots of lube, and make sure your partner wears a condom(makes it easier to do). Insert lube with a finger into your rectum first, until that's well lubed, you can get your partner to do this for added fun. Make sure your partner's penis is well lubed as well. Then take it slow.
One good tip is to clench your rectal muscle really tight, then release and as you release your partner pushes in. The muscle takes a little bit to tighten again, so if you do this a couple times it'll be in, and you can work on just relaxing it out.
Most of all, take your time, do it right.
Also, you can try it on yourself with fingers(make sure your fingernails are cut short), or a dildo, this will help you learn how to relax.
Oh and douching can be good to get clean, you can buy an enema kit that you just fill with water and insert to help clean out. May take a couple times before you're all clean, and a few tries to master, but it can be good to avoid other matters in bed.
2007-04-15 05:18:49
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answered by Luis 6
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I was convinced into trying it a long while back and the idea seemed extremely hot to me, but I was nervous. So we tried it but I guess he was just so happy and excited to be in there he started thrusting really deep and hard right from the beginning and it hurt so much, but eventually it actually felt good. After he said how amazing it was, but I told him then he hurt me and he felt
bad and I told him I knew he didn't mean to, but since then I've been afraid to try it again!
2014-09-14 10:56:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Anal sex is so misunderstood. You have to clean yourself out, use a lot quality lubricant, and freaking relax. People get all tense and can't let the taboo of it out of their head; you're doomed to fail from the start because you go into it convinced it's going to be painful and gross. Just relax your body, make sure your partner goes *slowly*, if you feel any pain don't tense up and amplify it, just bite your lip or something and try to relax, it'll fade in a second...
2007-04-14 16:57:52
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answered by lordwashu13 3
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Me and you have the same taste in porn. But you really have to be relaxed before penetration. I know this sounds bad, but being rimmed for about a good half hour before really helps, and also a bowel movement prior is a good loosener up!
2007-04-15 08:25:29
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answered by Grrr! 4
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The performers in porn are experienced with anal sex, and they use a lot of lube.
If you want to have anal sex, you need to work your way up to it - start with touching or rimming, move to shallow digital penetration, etc.
2007-04-14 16:42:21
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answered by Salek 4
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i don't know i have never felt discomfort having anal sex i also like to do that take it i mean but it always feels good to have something nice long and hard inside there for me sorry i couldn't help maybe cause you have to relax your body before you do that i am not sure
2007-04-14 16:46:19
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answered by big 3
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