Do girls get turned off by guys who act too interested?

Question

This is the lesson of my life or something.

It seems that when I dont give a dam about someone, they love me, but if I show interest I give 100%.
and they call me a freak or something, because I dont play stupid games.

I am a freight train when it comes to showing my attention. As far as acting all cool and sexy and acting like I dont care half the time. well, I just dont have the patience!

WHAT THE FOOK DOES "TOO NEEDY" MEAN!?

YOU GIRLS ARE LISTENING TO TOO MUCH BRITTANY SPEARS OR SOMETHING!

Answer 1

Well I love to play games hehe. Makes things more interesting. Tease them one day and ignore them the next... works for me. But for guys... if they come on too strong they come off as creeps who only want to get into my pants which isn't gonna happen. And hitting on a happily married woman Charles, Thomas, whatever is really Creepy!!

Answer 2

Ican't say that I blame you. Who the heck has time to play games anyhow? It's seems sorta petty to me when girls act like this. It would be a big turn off for me,as a guy. I would think automatic inmature!!!
Girls are different now than when we grew up, they are really into messing with guys minds-I don't like that, and I feel your frustration. I just wish I knew an answer. Maybe you are looking in the wrong direction, there could be one you have completely over-looked-You Think? Maybe look for an one a bit older not too much-but it's worth the try!!Good Luck Buddy!I wish ya the Best!! She's out there-Don't Give Up!! I don't get it with all the Stalker Talk-Hell I must be missing something!!

Answer 3

Well, you are right about what a drag it is when someone is acting "cool" as if they didn't care.

Avoid the games, but you don't need to be a freight train to do so, especially in the early months of a relationship. It's too overwhelming and intimidating.

Answer 4

Hi I know what you mean but unfortunately if someone is showering me with affection constantly it does put me off,sometimes it can look a little put on, if you know what I mean? I prefer someone to just be them self and not to feel like they are trying overly to look sweet and romantic! Just want the real ma-coy and I want to be told my irritations and faults sometimes you know, some times being too nice does seem a little false and makes one wonder when the bad side is going to show because no one is that loving and perfect hope that helps and hey just be yourself :)

Answer 5

i have to say i absolutely hate it when men play games and generally if they do i just leave it. i like a guy who can show his true feeling and if he shows that he's interested its good because i know where i stand. However, if i do turn him down even after that, he needs to know when to stop and take a hint. Most of the time i dump the ones who play games or "hard to get"

Answer 6

If you come on too eager, that will turn a woman off completely. The best approach is friendly with a little humor to break the ice....just be natural and smile first. There is something intriguing about a man who acts nonchalant :)

Answer 7

No - unless they are becoming obsessive or stalkerish. I've never understood the 'treat 'em mean' bullsh1t, it's just stupid, childish, and a waste of time.

Don't forget we're all individuals - there'll be someone who is right for you, somewhere.

Answer 8

You need to slow down and learn to take it one day at a time. These days too fast can freak people out and start thinking stalker issues.

Answer 9

Yes, for some reason many of them prefer to be treated like s***. Their low self-esteem prevents them from appreciating somebody who is caring and considerate. They just don't think they deserve a person like that

Answer 10

You have to test the waters.....some women need alot of attention and some are scared off by it. Just go slowly and see what happens.....but always be yourself cause you sound really sweet