In 2 weeks it will make one year that I have been dating my bf. I have dated so many guys in LTR's, but I never experienced the love, compassion, chemistry, and emotions until I met my bf. He is very supportive of me, as I am for him. We live a little distant and see each other on the weekends. Well trouble came along when this guy at his job is trying to do everything to distract my bf from me. My bf doesnt realize it. It hurts. Something doesnt seem right... I feel I cant trust him. what should i do?
2007-04-14 14:30:06 · 5 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
feeling something this strongly for the first time can knock you off your balance. You must realize for this to become everything you've dreamed of in a relationship, you must decide to trust your bf. Trust is about letting go and just letting it be what it is...has he betrayed you? If not, don't make him pay for something he hasn't done. It's not fair. Love him and give it your best. Be communicative without being accusatory. He may be completely unaware of this other person's advances, but don't assume something is going on when there isnt. You'll kill this before it has a chance to grow and that'll be a shame....good luck sweetie.
2007-04-14 14:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by usmcmama826 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the best advice i could really give is to talk to him, tell him how you feel and don't be too quick too draw any conclusions. I'm sure just as many relationships end because of one person falsely accusing the other of cheating as when someone really is. Besides, even if someone were interested in your bf, it doesn't mean it's mutual. But,really you should just talk to him. Hopefully the other guy is just a friend or not even that much.
2007-04-14 21:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There comes a time in a dating relationship where it either needs to soar or fail. It's time to talk to him, and see which he wants to do. If he wants to make a real go of it, he will be open and honest with you. It might be time for one of you to relocate, and make the "us" a priority.
2007-04-14 22:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely have to voice your feelings
I understand not wanting to look clingy or weak but communication is the most important thing.
How will he know you feel this way if you don't tell him?
2007-04-14 21:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm... your question is a toughie, but that happened with my boyfriend and me, but in a diffrent scenerio.. long story.. but, how about you try talking to your bf? thats what i had to do with my boyfriend.. to long to write here, but uhm, sorry for not answering your question fully, just feel free to IM me, frankf0423@yahoo.com
2007-04-15 01:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by frankf0423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋