my mom like dosnt like any of my friends. she only likes one only cause shes a good little girl. she like hates all my other friends. she said i cant hang out wit them, but i still am cause they are my friends. she said my friends are the people who infulence me to be bad, i think thats total crap. im probaly the worst behaved out of all my friends so they rn't making me do the stuff i do. how can i make her like my friends and stop thinking they are bad and crap.
2007-04-14 13:56:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no im on my moms comp rite now, she dosnt have yahoo messenger on hers. and umm ya my comp dosnt work i already told u that.
2007-04-14 14:02:35 · update #1
Emawee, I have a similar problem, except that my friends' moms don't like me...some lame excuses about being disrespectful and dressing provocatively. I think they are just intimidated because of my charm, wit and articulation.
I stayed with one last fall when my daddy was overseas and oh was it a complete disaster. I am actually forbidden from entering two of their homes or hanging around with them either.
Tell your mom they are your friends and you will choose your friends and she has no say in the matter.
Thank you and good day.
2007-04-14 14:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 5 · 3⤊ 6⤋
Well I hope she doesn't hate me.
I'd not get into a fight with her about this, just make her think she's right for the moment and really think about WHY she thinks they're a bad influence. If she's going by what you say then, just blow it off. If your brother is telling her stuff then she may be getting half of the story. Talk with her about this. you need friends that will love and support you not get you into trouble. Ask her why and I'm sure you can contradict her. good luck.
2007-04-14 21:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Heather R♥se 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is crap, but maybe she's right. In any case, since she's your mother, I think you should take a step back and look at it from her angle. Maybe she feels desperate because you ARE the worst behaved among your friends. That's not something you should be proud of. Work on earning her trust back. Her trust is a privilege, not a right.
2007-04-14 21:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by mennyd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At some point and time or another everyone goes through this my parents didnt like alot of my friends either and also told me not hang around with them but they were alot older than I was at the time as time went on and they realized that alot of the things that I did werent because of my friends they learned to accept them and that was the end of it.
2007-04-14 21:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by mel w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emawee I know you aren't going to want to hear this but most parents want to know their children's friends. I can tell you from my own experience that the easiest way to get to really know your children's friends is to have them come to the house, have sleepovers, etc.I encouraged my daughters to bring their friends to our home Hopefully your friends will act respectfully around your parents, that is very important.I don't think that is fair to blame your friends for your behaviour , you are responsible for yourself. I think if you want your parents to respect your choice of friends you must make changes in your attitude.If you behave in a responsible and respectful manner it is natural to assume your friends will also act respectful in your parents home.I hope you not only read my answer but try to put these ideas into practice.
2007-04-14 21:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I think your mom is RIGHT here.....maybe you just think that you are the "badest" friend of the bunch...but the truth is, without your group, you may not be craving that type of attention from your "friends". Mothers have an instinct that you can't understand right now....Sorry, babe, You need to compromise with your mom, try to find a few new friends and maybe some of your old friends will all hang out together and you won;t need to be so "bad".
2007-04-14 21:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by manners 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
The question is, why do you have to be the one who acts the worst of all of them? Your mom wants to think the best of you, so naturally she targets them.....seems to be a no-brainer to me. Your safety, education and basic shelter are her business---so if you are doing things or acting like you might be doing things that are risky she's going to step in. Its all attitude. Act like a child, get treated like one. Act like a punk, well you get it. Start acting responsible and doing the next right thing, and maybe you'll get some more responsibility, a chance to go to a concert you like, a car, whatever.... good luck.
2007-04-14 22:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetserenity 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your mom let her know you understand that she doesn't like your friends but to please trust you and if it all blows up tell her that the best way in life to learn is to make mistakes but you still need to be respectful
2007-04-14 21:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think there are deeper issues here and you should speak to your school councilor.
2007-04-14 21:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
stereotypes.
2007-04-16 09:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by Russly F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋