Okay, so the question was asked "how do you forget your true love?" I'd like to know that too.....In my case, for the past, about 8 years, I've known this man (met on internet, talked on phone, met in real life, talked on phone more, talked on internet more, met in real life again) and exactly one month ago he came here. We had a wonderful meeting, he stayed the night (1:30 am arrival), and he left right after I got home from work that afternoon. Funny thing is.....his wife, which I knew existed, calls my house twice while he is here. Apparently while I was at work, he talked with her for over an hour, and she convinced him, or manipulated him, to come back 'home'....so he went, and I haven't heard from him since. I've heard from 'her' twice though. I think she's done something to him......am I totally crazy? I can't forget about him....why hasn't he called? It's not normal....His last words to me were 'I love you'....did he just totally dump me?
2007-04-14 13:34:41 · 7 answers · asked by sickittyt 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
You should wait patiently for him to return to you. You love him, don't you. Many women will tell you that since he is married, there is nothing in it for you, but this only shows that women want something from a man, before they 'fall in love'.
That you love a man for who he is shows that there are at least a few women who can love a man for who he is, not for what she wants him to be.
2007-04-14 16:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Brian J. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a joke, right?
His wife 'manipulated' him to come back to her???
The only person manipulated was YOU.
He got sex without commitment! Ha ha ha!
Oh, how do you KNOW his wife called him? Maybe he just said that, to dump you.
He arrived at 1:30 a.m., bangs you, and goes back to his wife? For God's sakes, I hope he left a $50 on the dresser, b/c THAT is what YOU are to HIM.
2007-04-14 16:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Love? I think not.
Love doesn't behave as you say this is happening.
Like the others here told you, move on and don't even look back. If he cheats on his wife, where does that leave you?
But leave knowing that someone is looking for you and he will not be a yutz creep like this guy.
2007-04-14 15:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's married, fool. he tells his wife he loves her and then cheats on her; why would those words mean anything more when he says them to you. you need to grow up, imho. go find a single guy who you respect and who respects you... the opposite of this situation.
2007-04-14 14:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by scruffy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
change your phone number or move, but for real, just drop the thrill and move on cause you're going to have a major blowout with this one....save yourself the heartache and trouble....
2007-04-14 13:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by blueJean 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sucker Chump.
2007-04-14 17:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as true love..... just true lust.
2007-04-14 13:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋