would you suppport sex before marriage or after marriage ?

Answer 1

Considering that I've never been married and have been having sex for the past 5 years (although not last year; I've been practicing celibacy), I'd have to say before. But I also support after marriage. Problem is, marriage is for people who want to procreate. Couples who marry and continue to stay child-free are alienated by parents who have children. I have tocophobia, not to mention a host of disorders that I'd not want to pass on to anyone. Another fear I have is having bad sex. My sex drive is high but fragile and one bad session can make it crash.

I still support marriage. After all, it can be a wonderful thing to have someone to depend on like that. Most marriages, though, aren't wonderful. And until everyone has an equal chance to live that supportive, blissful dream, I will be in major support of sex before marriage--for those of us many who aren't so optimistic when it comes to coupledom.

Answer 2

After

Answer 3

ANY sex outside the bounds of "holy matrimony" is called SIN! Who says so? GOD does! It's called FORNICATION, and "fornicators shall not inherit the kingdom of God" (1 Corinthians 6:9&10). Also, "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled; but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." (Hebrews 13:4) Jesus said that if you "look to lust" it is "adultery of the heart" (Matthew 5:27&28), and "the wages of sin" is STILL "death" (Romans 6:23).

God is by no means AGAINST sex! He INVENTED it! But what so many people don't understand, including some on here, is that sex is opening yourself up in the most intimate way to another person, and without that COMMITMENT called "love" (meaning MARRIAGE!), that act, though very pleasureable (no doubt!) is CHEAPENED! It drives a wedge and builds a wall of distrust and disrespect between the two "lovers" which is why ALL relationships that involve fornication have MAJOR problems! The woman feels USED and the guy becomes the USER. Sex outside marriage is SELF CENTERED, and again, SINFUL! Is it any wonder that there are so many MESSED UP "relationships" today, so many out of wedlock pragnancies, abortions, std's, divorces, abuse, etc.? It ALL stems from fornication!

The only guarantee to really GOOD sex that is "STD free" is to "do it" GOD'S WAY! And that is WITHIN MARRIAGE! Period! Therefore, as a Christian that believes THE BIBLE as God's absolute truth, I ONLY support sex WITHIN marriage, not "before" nor "after"!

Answer 4

the only way which you're able to lose dignity by fact which you had intercourse previously marriage is that in case you believed that what you have been doing develop into incorrect. in case you sense that way, then you definately should not be having intercourse previously marriage. Relationships require possibility. there is not any assure that in case you have intercourse previously marriage that your courting would be greater helpful or worse than in case you do no longer. I do think of human beings tend to go too speedy in relationships. They bounce into mattress previously they actually get to comprehend one yet another. that's why i think the main effective marriages are with people who're acquaintances first, comprehend one yet another for awhile and circulate right into a romantic courting gradually. whilst this takes place, intercourse can develop right into a organic element of a turning out to be courting. there's no longer the subject approximately however if that's too quickly or will this guy or woman appreciate me in the morning. in case you have the perspective which you meet somebody, sleep with them and somebody gets dumped in some months, you have no longer have been given a courting before everything. you in simple terms have a intercourse better half. regrettably, you have a superb form of human beings residing like this. They see intercourse as a organic element of courting. You meet, circulate to dinner and a action picture, have intercourse. it rather is the 1st date. there's no longer something here to justify calling this a courting. that's purely a date with intercourse. once you do have a courting, so a techniques as discomfort in case you wreck up, the discomfort is there however if or no longer you have had intercourse. it truly is a non-difficulty. So, in answer on your question, i think that intercourse as a factor of a turning out to be, long term courting is honestly organic and suitable, however if or no longer marriage is in the photograph, yet whilst between the events isn't waiting or mushy with intercourse with out marriage, then it is going to be postponed.

Answer 5

I would you suppport sex after marriage

Answer 6

Before, After and During

Answer 7

After marriage of course

Answer 8

Before, While It's Not A Big Deal I Would Rather Know If We're Sexually Compatible Or Not.

Answer 9

after

Answer 10

I support sex before marriage. I don't plan on getting married either. That doesn't mean that I'm not in a long term (life time) meaningful relationship.