if me and my friend are always together, she has keys to my car and house. spends the night, uses my car whenever she wants (others in the office even notice and have commented), emails through out the day and whenever talking to someone always says we instead of i. we always touch either each others backs, arms or legs (not sexually) and the other day saw an old couple driving and the wife was sleeping. i emailed her later and said i could picture that us. she agreed and thought it was funny. we have talks that seem couplish to me. like asking me how if feel about her and when i ask the same thing she says she wants to take time to write it out.
so if i were a guy would we be in a relationship? or are we already without realizing it?
2007-04-14 12:14:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe you're more like sisters. Sisters can be close like that.
2007-04-14 13:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like a very sweet, intimate friendship that possibly could blossom into something more physical. Women throughout history have had relationships like this and were considered to be couples, and its never been proven that they actually had sex. If you and she are comfortable in this and the idea of one of you falling in love with someone else and this situation coming to an end doesn't bug you, then I'd say keep on doing what you're doing.
2007-04-14 19:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by usmcmama826 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe u already are!! nothings wrong with that and that sounds wonderful cause alot of people that claim to be in relationships wish they weren't..not all the time but most the time...
cherrish the moment though, keep it at that pace don't move too fast and just do what u do until further instructions from your heart. and hers aswell..no it doesn't matter if you were a guy cause she seems to be taking her time which means she does like you but let it come out when it is time...i know, im not a big fan of time either..good luck...k
2007-04-14 19:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend needs to come to terms with the reality that you two are in it over your heads. Either be friends and lovers or stop flirting. I think it's really that simple. Good luck!
2007-04-14 20:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by greenbuddha03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with your heart and if you like this "friend" then go for it. Talk to them about it. I would think this was a relationship.
2007-04-14 19:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd call it a relationship - - -
Peace
(Go Oregon State )
2007-04-14 19:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a relationship to me.
2007-04-14 19:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by ciddykat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋