im a lesbian, but not out of the closet yet, only one or two close friends know. sigh, so ok. i fell i love with this girl. she's a lesbian, but her ex broke her heart, and now is going out with a guy, because he makes her feel happy, and now is bi. im a friend of heres, and im always there to comfort her, but i fell in love with her, and she doesnt quite now. i want to tell her, but shes still broken hearted, and i dont want to make matteres worse for her with her bf and stuff. im in hioghschool, both frshman, im 14, shes 15. boyfriend and ex as well, but hes 17
2007-04-14 07:43:46 · 15 answers · asked by dark_silence_69 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
please i already know that i have to focus on my study, but theres alot going on with me, not just that and i need to get this over with, what should i do?
2007-04-14 08:34:55 · update #1
Just kiss her when the moment is right. Like if your watching a movie or playing around, just go in for a kiss.
2007-04-14 07:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by burkscw 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Hey, well this is diff. but if you really love her then you need to. I understand you are worried about how it might affect her and her current relationship but you are only going to torture yourself if you keeo wondering about her. Life is to short to sit around and think about the people we love but might never get the chance to be with. You just need talk to her for a little while then go in to it and explain to her that you dont want anything between you two, to change but that you really like her and just wondered if she felt the same or what. Now at first if she doesnt respond its okay, because that is going to be kindof a shock for her. So give her some room and just let her think about it. I hope you get what you want and good luck!!!
2007-04-14 07:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey... calm down, you're 14... you don't need to worry about any of this. I know it seems like the very end of the world, but TRUST ME, it will be OK. If this is star crossed love it will develop on it's own. Pressure will only spoil it.
I know it's silly, but there is a song lyric that i have been trying to make my mantra - "Live your life until love is found, or Love's gonna get you down."
2007-04-14 08:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi dark silence,
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2007-04-15 03:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Gyaan Guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you no its not just lust or the vunerabilty and looks you fell in love with, im sorry i no you wont want to hear this but wait until your 18 and sure
2007-04-21 14:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by just_looking thanx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm continually by using myself if persons are with me the lecturers chosen the companions i be attentive to the way you sense all people hate me and dont do something i guess they might make relaxing of you in case you have been with somebody
2016-10-22 04:04:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a rebound relationship and most likely will not last (rebounds hardly ever do).
I would just be there for her and after she's healed see if she has a spark for you as well.
2007-04-14 07:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i agree that you need to definitly need to focus on school work and just give yourself time. i dont think you can really know your sexuallity at this age. just give things some time and they will work out.
2007-04-14 07:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by bre 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's pretty heavy stuff for a freshman.
2007-04-14 07:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey well wait for her to be ready and then tell her how u feel she might feel the same as you do!!
2007-04-14 13:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by BOBO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋