Hey I have been through sooooo much pain and misery from a break up from my boyfriend. He broke it up to me on my first day of work , which needed alot of focus on because I am doing marketing for the resorts.And it was also two days after my birthday ! Wrong timing but anyways he wanted to break up because he felt like being single and he thinks it feels right .(long story ) We just started long distance so it was hard but we only had like a couple more months till we get back hom and be together without long distance.I can't believ he gave up so easily! And even though i clearly said we should not break up and that it was putting me to mental torture.He didn't care and say too bad we broken up already . I will let you know if we can get back but don't hope too much on it .Ughhhhhh! And I had been crying like a baby for a few days and my chest hurts so much! I was a good women to him with a good heart and I gave him my all .
2007-04-14 03:48:46 · 23 answers · asked by ciara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ps My friends felt so bad for the hurt I went through but they said that god will take care of it . And that they believe in Karma.Even though he out me through so much hurt , I really hope that nothing bad will happen ya know? Because I care about him
2007-04-14 03:50:19 · update #1
What goes around definately comes back around* I agree~ Yes he did break your heart...but in time...his heart will also be broken and he will feel what you have felt.
Good thing you know now that he's not the one you're meant to be with*~ God has made you a stronger person from this experience*, but not all guys are like this one. Remember that*~
You are a wonderful person and you do have a great heart....You will meet Mr.Right someday...but in the meantime...live life...have fun...be with friends/family...until you're ready to try at love* again...there are no gaurantees in life or love...but you have to keep on trying till you meet the man of your dreams*~ Keep on Smlin* Stay strong~:)
2007-04-14 03:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything will be all right. If it's meant for you all to get back together, when the long distance situation changes, you will. In the meantime, try to focus on your new job, and your new friends (if you don't have any new friends in your new location, try to make some) that way you won't be so focused on what you've "lost". I don't know about karma. There are some awfully bad people in this world who do not seem to get their just rewards, and similarly, some of the best people I know seems to be continuously oppressed. Best of luck to you, God Bless, Martha S.
2007-04-14 03:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by Martha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he kept you from being hurt more than you are now. Maybe he knew that he was going to cheat on you and that the only thing to do was break it off.
Would you have rather you called one day and a girl answer his phone. Or you go for a visit and catch him in the act.
Think about it.
I think that your friends are right and what goes around comes around. I bet you have broken up with somebody.
And if so, maybe things are coming back around. And if not, he will get his someday.
2007-04-14 03:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe what goes around comes around.
I know that it hurts when someone breaks up with you unexpectedly, but be a strong woman. If you're a good woman, you will find a good man to make you happy and not put you through this type of pain. Your ex-boyfriend didn't deserve you. Hold your head up high; and try to find comfort in knowing better days are ahead.
2007-04-14 04:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Unique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It in simple terms won't be linear. it truly is, it ought to take a protracted time to return around and it ought to no longer additionally be in this actual lifetime. yet people who persecute or ridicule or in any different case do injury to others will discover themselves interior the comparable place faster or later. you spot, i think of that to realize the purpose of the soul (whats up, a slogan) takes having all varieties of balancing reviews. once you are the king, then you definately must be the servant and once you're a merciless king then you definately would be a servant with a merciless grasp, while you're wealthy and despise the detrimental, then you definately gets to be a member of the despised detrimental. this would not ensue as a results of fact it truly is 'justice', it happens as a results of fact the soul ought to have each and every of the varieties of adventure to fully comprehend and the right thank you to love. So, in no way worry, that team that brought about you plenty grief will adventure the grief themselves. "As ye sow, so shall ye gain" isn't a undesirable precis.
2016-12-16 05:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by cheng 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, what goes around does come back around. I've witnessed this with 2 ex's. One left, cheated, got married to her, had a baby. He started selling DRUGS of all things, and went to prison. He came back 7 years later as a successful business owner, and told me he had made a serious mistake and would I come back to him. I said no.
The next one showed his true colors as a serious gambler. I tried to talk to him about it to get help. He kept doing it. Bookies were calling my home demanding $. It got worse. I finally left. Then about 3 years later I was told he had to have a leg amputated because of a development of diabetes. He lost the house, his job, and had to move in with mother at 50 years old.
There's a tune called "God's greatest gift".... is often unanswered prayers. I believe things happen on this earth for a reason.
You don't see it now, but you will. You will look back, and know that God had your best interest at heart.
2007-04-14 04:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe what goes around comes around but I also believe you are a little phony....You care about him and say you don't want anything bad to happen to him but you still ask this question because deep in your heart you feel hurt and you want revenge... I'd say you should totaly forgive him and analize this situation, accept the truth, move on and completly ignore him. Good luck
2007-04-14 03:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I hope it is true "what goes around comes around" because my ex is so deserving of some serious heartache!
I think you should focus on your job and get together with some friends and put yourself out there to meet some guys, even if it is just to get out of the house and share some laughs, dancing......
Your ex sounds heartless and believe me they are out there. I would avoid calling him, avoid taking his calls (if he calls, tell him you are on your way out the door, tell him you'll call him back and DON'T). Sweetie, your tears for this man are meaningless at this point. He has some issues and you cannot solve them for him. I wish you luck.....and happiness, one day you will find a man who appreciates that good heart of yours.
2007-04-14 04:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh....one sided love is never easy, dear one. Do you really want such a callous man in charge of your heart? I should hope not.
The best "revenge" is living well and happy, free in spirit, hope and love. Do not allow this man to ruin your life....the grief will pass and I hope sooner rather than later.
May peace be always with you, dear one.
2007-04-14 03:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone is meant to meet someone for them.. men are difficult to understand, and to be honest i don't think anyone with ever entirely understand a person of the opposite sex.
if he has broken up with you, and i know this next bit is the hardest part, but you just have to learn to accept its over. you won't be how you were, and that is something you just have to overcome.
Best of luck, and with time you'll meet someone else who is meant to be... : ) xxxx
2007-04-14 03:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋