When people change for the worst, do they ever change back?

Question

I have been having a lot of trouble with one of my friends lately. We used to be best friends... You could have called us inseperable. Then for reasons I am unaware of for certain, she ended the friendship. She cited different reasons to me than to others. I believe it was at the hands of her parents. I am also friends with a guy she used to date and she did the same thing to him. Now she pretends like we both don't exist. I have been very upset over it because despite her ignoring me personally, she talks about me and tries to ruin my life. I am trying to keep working for the friendship but she makes it near impossible. I don't like to quit on people because I am a romantic and I love under the best and worst scenarios. But other people, most all people, see a change in her too. She used to be well liked when we were friends and now most people hate her because they say that she has "changed". I would have to agree whole-heartedly with them, she has. But, will she ever change back?

She believes lies about me and about her ex who is one of my close friends. Things like, I supposedly vandalized her car... But many people will tell her that I didn't. She should know I would never do that. She was so important to me. I'm not sure what to do. I just have hope that she is just in a difficult part of her life right now, and someday she will snap out of it.

Answer 1

It's sad to see a friend change that much that most ppl have noticed the big difference in her. All you can do is be there for her when she falls. She will Need A Friend*..right now, she's feeling like she's invinsible, her 'new way of living'..making up or believing lies about you etc...If she chooses to ignore you...all I would suggest..is writing a letter/email saying how you've always considered her a good friend, that right now she doesn't want anything to do with y ou and for what reason you have no idea..but if and when she decides she wants to be friends again...you'll always be there for her ~Then step back ...if she continues to ignore you and ruin your life......don't allow that to happen . Take Control of the situation..and speak up to her, approach her and ask her point blankly...what her problem is??
GoodLUck*

Answer 2

she is probably pmsing...