Its been 10 yrs, we are each others 1st love. She got sick of waiting for me to propose, I was going to do it soon and ive got a ring. She knows this, and ive told her how much she means to me. Im a Taurus and she is a Sagitarius, any free advice would be good thanks. She has told me she doesnt love me any more!! I am finding it near impossible to just move on, she is my world it just sucks that i havent shown her that recently, its just so easy to start taking things for granted after 10 yrs though!!
2007-04-13 23:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by N. Andrews 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Hi, Taurus to Taurus converstion -#
Firstly Taurians, we don't like to get out of our confort zone, and this has feared you to make a change and ask this poor lady to marry you. Bad bad bad... she felt a waist of life, and you were not commited enough.
Why don't you just try to run after her like a REAL man.
Don't give up Taurus, use those horns the way i'm trying to use them for you now!!!
She waited long enough, and thought 'bugger him off '. Women sometimes feel neglected and taken forgranted if the man doesn't do that 'wonderful purpose'. so, go now, knock her door, and show her the big dimond you have ready for her, tell her all you feel, and she'll come back to you... change your life, find more excitement, make travel arrangement, go on holiday and open new light in your life. don't sit and imagine life to pass by, we are all going old...! Life is too short to wait!
2007-04-14 00:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Spark S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You being a Taurus, have a strong, faithful nature, rather like a Dog's excpt for one thing u can get selfish, while she is flighty, shifty and moody of nature, also you should know you are a earth sign and she a water. Often these 2 elements indicate long term relationships, which usually end by one getting bored.
Now according to my Tarot cards, (trust them) you should wait for 5 days, this is the max time, after that dump her and start enjoying dates again, when u get a steady relationship of abt 1 or 1 and a half years, propose(don't wait too long, she too might walk out) and marry her.
Bottom line move on, if she knew u were goint to propose, and still walked out she dosen't care enough, so forget her. As a jibe send the ring u bought along with a card saying- 2 our comradeship of 10 years.
2007-04-14 00:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Neha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately she doesn't love you anymore. After ten years people change so much. Neither one of you is the same person you started dating. She knows that you have the ring and that scares her even more because she knows what you both have become and is not comfortable seeing herself in the same relationship for the rest of her life. There is good news though. It's not the end of the world. I know you probably feel that way but she probably did you a big favor in the long run. If you had actually been in love with her you would have proposed a long time ago. I know you loved her, but believe me when I say it's not the way you needed to. When you meet someone and your in love you'll know. But the difference is you'll both know. Just take it easy and don't jump into another relationship too soon. Take your time. And if your going to date do it online. Much better choices and you can shop and get to know someone before you meet them and get into something your not ready for.
2007-04-14 00:05:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OI NATHAN ...
come on when i first answered your question ,, I noted that another person had written that you had already asked the question ... I thought maybe he was confusing you with another asker ...
since then I have stumbled on you asking the same question several times and now i really i have to say that I hope your ex doesn't go back to you as you are turning out to be some freaky kind of dude... and she would have to be a complete fool to take a moron like you back.
If you want people to keep giving you answers you increase the time you want answers to be acceptable..
IF you are indeed a person who is feeling this way GO SEE YOUR G.P and get a referal to a counsellor.. stop re-writing the same bloody question 50 times over.. you need SERRIOUS HELP.
2007-04-14 00:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by ll_jenny_ll here AND I'M BAC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute, r u questioning your !0yrs relation according to horoscopes?
Hummmmmm .....
True love is a rare to be found once u find it keep it & ppl r what they do not what is their horoscopes, maybe she said she doesn't love you any more bcus she is fedup with waiting for 10 years & yet u r still hesistating ... come on man what u have to lose if u think she's leaving you go ahead propse & do whatever it takes to keep her if her answer still the same u can't blame ur self one day that u left without a fight & if she worth it in ur opinion so she deserve u to fight for her back in ur life .........
& who knows u may live happily ever after ;'-)
Good luck .....
2007-04-14 00:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many fish in the sea, my friend. I know you are missing her but try to go out there and enjoy your life a little bit. The last ten years have been invested in this one relationship, how do you even know that's what you want, you've not not much to compare it to. Have you ever heard the expression," If you love something,set it free. If it comes back, it's yours, if not, it never really was."? Try that philosophy.And don't "pine" over her, pick yourself up by the bootstraps and live,my boy!! Good luck.
2007-04-14 00:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by little lu-lu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess time has nothing to do with it, eventhough you've been with each for a very long time,sometimes girls are looking for another world, i mean they love to explore and not just be stocked to one place,and sometimes it happens when guys are trying to tie them already through marriage,sometimes its confusing.... Why not give her more time to think, and whatever the outcome just be happy...do you believe in destiny?I do...,so I 'm ure if you are really meant for each other whatever it takes,even the strongest storm may come, you are for her and she is for you....ok
2007-04-14 00:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to astrology books Taurus and Sagittarius are not very compatible.Taurus is too possessive and Sagittarius too outgoing and frank.
2007-04-14 01:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by rkbaqaya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound silly, but I personally lived by this quote:
"If you love someone, set her/him free;
If she/he comes back, she's/he's yours;
If she/he doesn't, the love was never meant to be."
Goodluck...
2007-04-14 00:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by pretty smiley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you two
but it maybe a reason you waited
Earth sign sometime have problem with fire sign
do you two have children
2007-04-14 02:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋