My girlfriend of 10 yrs walked out on me 7 weeks ago, because i hadnt already proposed to her. I know it sounds bad, Yes i was planning on asking her and ive got the ring and ive told her since. She lost interest in me because she didnt think i was 100% into our relationship. I am and i did take her for granted, but after 10 yrs its very easy to do. I love her sooo much and she knows this, i talked to her last night and asked her if we hung out, is there any chance she could fall in love with me again and she said maybe but she wouldnt allow herself to do it. She thinks that i would fall back into my old ways, ive guranteed her that ive never felt like this before and i wouldnt allow myself to. We had a good relationship, we hardly argued and if we did we sorted it out that day. Ive been told by a friend to try a love spell.
Do they work and what are the side effects in the future. If its bad to make her love me, could i do one to make her realise how serious i am about us
2007-04-13 22:59:51 · 15 answers · asked by N. Andrews 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
i have a love spell. light a white candle and say:
never alone,never frightened,
give me love, for true enlightment
2007-04-13 23:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by michaelamcgrth 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Generally speaking, witches strongly oppose using magic that could possibly alter someone's free will. Though you may cast spells that BRING love, you cannot under any circumstance cast a spell that will MAKE someone fall in love with you. Though I don't recommend that either, seeing as you are actually new enough that you thought it's okay to cast a love spell on someone.
Spells are not something you pick up over the weekend. It takes years, if not decades, of dedication and practice.
I'm guessing your friend is a dabbling newbie in a serious practice.
2007-04-14 05:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by xx. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Andre, I am so sorry that your relationship has broken down. You could try a love spell and if it is meant to be it will be. Your intention and thought should be one and the same, and this should be wrapped in love and care. Not absolutely necessary, but a nice idea is to get a piece of Rose Quartz which promotes love and loving thoughts and feelings, just a small piece, carry it with you as a charm. Then acquire a Pink or rose coloured candle, and some rose smelling incense. Have an idea of what you would like to 'be' and really concentrate and focus on this, then keeping those thoughts, write on a piece of paper, maybe a couple of those thoughts.
Wait until it goes dark, and find a quiet place to focus your mind, then when you are ready, light your candle and your incense, and once focused, have a saucer or a plate nearby, where you can commit your messages to the flame of the candle and place the ash in a plate nearby or you can choose to keep them focusing on them and returning to them at a later date.(or keep copies) As the candle burns, send your thoughts out of love and intention, When you have finished, put out the candle and thank the higher power, and respect and honor that what will be will be. All good wishes to you, Libithina x
2007-04-14 01:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by libithina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her respect, you might try reassuring her that you understand that she's worried you'd fall back into your old ways. Tell her that "with her" perspective, you might come to the same conclusion. Assure her that you don't take it personally (even if right now you do) and that you can handle moving on if that is what she wishes. I would imagine that if you try to change her mind about you, she will think you desperate as well as indecisive (which in that case, you would be). Show her that you can be the big man (by looking after her emotions rather than your own), she might respect that. She may well believe that you can change your ways in time, so you will need to show patience right now.
My own feeling here is that you would benifit from being with your friends more at the moment! If you can enjoy you life more, it puts your relationship into perspective. That might allow you to feel less desperate when you talk to her. I bet if she saw you with another girl (a pretty girl) out on a casual date, it would demonstrate to her that your not the sort of guy to lock yourself up in a cupboard and sulk like a child. She might see you with more respect if she see's you enjoying life and not being overly burdened by how she treated you. I think it would be foolish to set your goals too high in this situation (set a goal which you know you can achieve). Rather than thinking, I must get her back, maybe first establish some respect with her, as a more achievable goal. One step at a time, and easy goes.
2007-04-14 04:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Yoda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a 'love spell' and even if there was it would be like forcing someone to love you against their will. The best love is the natural one not artificially induced. If you've been together for ten years and told her all the things you've put in your question you should be able to sort it out. Ten years seems hell of a long time to be together without proposing. Ask her again properly and if she refuses because you haven't asked her during that time just point out that she hasn't asked you either. It works both ways. Good luck. Tell your friend with the love spell to join the real world.
2007-04-14 00:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by quatt47 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That reminds me of a practical friend of mine here in Borneo, where love spells are frequent and reputedly do work: the best love spell to-day is a full wallet. Cash is the magic... you should have given her the ring earlier! Women can be obstinate, and she might mean it that 'she wouldn't allow herself to do it' again. Knowing nothing about your relationship and common interests I nevertheless dare say that if you have both interests in occultism, shamanism and all that she might it actually find it cute that you try a love spell on her, and then it might actually work... Good luck!
2007-04-14 01:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They might work but then it would make the situation 3xs worse. I am Wiccan and we follow the rule of 3 and the Rede. Harm ye none and do what thout wilt and whatever you do comes back to you by 3......I would not recommend a love spell.....maybe a mariachi band at her window???
2007-04-14 03:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do work, if done right, but when done wrong or right it is usually a bad idea.!!!
get out the movie "the craft" in this movie a girl casts a love spell and ends up getting hurt (assault/ attempted rape) where this probably wouldn't happen for a guy I would expect a over bearing woman that could get jealous over the simplest thing, and possible accuse you of cheating when you just ask for a hour alone (regardless of current personality this type of spell changes people)
I would look for a insight or clarity spell, either she will see how much you love her, or realize to a further extent how much she is sick of you..........I don't think there is a good way to change things from the path they are going.
2007-04-13 23:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Sorry, I don't know any love spells, but you could try accupuncture. Just take two needles, poke them in, and call me in the morning. I will be sending a bill...
2007-04-14 01:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by jpturboprop 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on spell !!!! i think you dont really love this chic or/else you wouldnt be in this situation
if you do love her try human love - like say you love her , and show it to her in your actions and feelings
2007-04-14 05:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by jimmyb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an absolute perversion of humanity to affect willpower, this must take it's course naturally.
2007-04-14 00:41:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋