okay im 18 and my mom found porn on my computer... i dont think watching porn is such a big deal... matter of fact, me and my friends tlak about it all the time... but i've been able to pop multiple erections and i've been jacking off like 5 times a day since i was 12... but im not able to pop an erection since the day she found my porn. what do i do?!?!?!?!?!? I HATE MY MOM RIGHT NOW!
2007-04-13 18:12:48 · 23 answers · asked by teddyk k 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
yes i do live on my own, but she came to visit me and cheked my computer!
2007-04-13 18:17:46 · update #1
sorry, how old are you? if you are really 18, then move out of home, get your own place,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
2007-04-13 18:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
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2016-07-19 04:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh relax and give it some time! It's always embarrassing when family members catch you jacking off or find your porn (I speak from experience!) but most of us get over it. Hopefully your mom didn't make a big issue out of it. You are 18 and have the right to look at porn if you want. It ain't that big of an issue unless you make it one. 5 times a day might be a little too much to jack off too...you might think of expanding your world just a bit...maybe go out and find a girlfriend? Once of twice a day is fine for jacking off though. Hey I'm 66 and have been jacking off since I was 12 and I ain't blind or crazy yet. I like porn too. You weren't doing anything wrong even if your mom said you were. If she doesn't like it in the house I suppose she has a right to say so...you may have to look elsewhere for your jack off inspiration. Good luck...those boners should be soon popping up again!
2007-04-15 05:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah porn's appealing but if we look on the bright side, it's wrong ethically and morally. The main part about it is that causes you to have evil and impure thoughts in your mind. If you ask me, you kind of degrade in your own eyes. Even it doesn't matter that what people say or friends. My friends talked about it most of the times but I didn't bother myself in having those same filthy thoughts and it counts as my hard work in trying to keep my mind and soul clean. Also again, listen to the ones who truly understands you(obviously you would take serious only those that are your truly-understanders!). But also remember that only well wishers we got until The End are our family(also the ones you believe that would never think or done any harm to you. obviously!) and ourselves. Friends. True Ones Ofcourse. Because not all, some of them stab you in your back sometimes. It's life. So if you want the most Truest advice in the whole wide world, Keep Your Self Away From It. Remember that even God told us humans to keep away from things like that no matter how much it appeals. It Must've been our own Good.
Thanks.
P.S. About the whole mom-catching-porn-on computer part, there must've been some reason she did that or otherwise just net surfing. for the good reason part, common! she's your mom and being as a parent she worries about you cause' she's your mom!? So she must've just wanted to know that what you do, what are your activities, sort of? But I am sure you'll work out things in time. Remember that Time Is The Healer Of All Wounds but that also you should do something about it.
2007-04-16 19:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you should have had your computer passworded so she couldn't access it without you. It may take you a while to get back to being able to get an erection as it was your mother that found the porn and now knows what you have been doing all this time. Until you are comfortable mentally again you just need to relax until you are over this.
2007-04-13 18:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. You'll get it back. In the mean time, put the nastiest porn you can find on your computer's wallpaper. Change the screen saver to flip through porn stills every few seconds. It'll give her something to really look at next time she's over (and it frees up your hands when Mr Happy comes home).
You shouldn't be embarrassed for having it. She should be totally ashamed for snooping. Give her something to look at.
2007-04-13 18:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by NoahTall 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
5 times a day? Maybe you've worn it out. Maybe you've used up your lifetime quota of orgasms. Do you have blisters, or are they callouses now? Forget the mom/porn thing. You'll get over that. Get a hobby.
2007-04-13 18:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by markmccloud_1 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be worse, my dad caught me masterbating when I was young... lol this is a normal part of growing up, chances are your mom will not say anything and unless she does I wouldnt worry too much about it. if she does, all you have to say is that you never know what is going to come up on your screen on the internet and show her a google search and what it pulls up. lol :)
2016-05-19 21:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all as a Mom myself I would suggest you be upfront and honest as possible about your feelings. If you don't talk about it then it will become very awkward.
Next keep your stuff private so your Mother will not see it
There are programs to hide your files and keep them private.
May I suggest: Folder Vault
http://www.gearboxcomputers.com/folder-vault.html
2007-04-17 07:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Laverne S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation 5 times a day is a little too much. You need a life and a girl friend buddy. Maybe this is the best thing to happen to you.
2007-04-13 18:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by The V 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Go days and days without wacking off. Trust me, you;ll get to the point where you'll just explode...........
damn...5 times a day since 12.....beats my record
2007-04-13 18:16:46 · answer #11 · answered by Uub 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋