My bf, and I have been dating since November 2005. I love him but lately I feel less connection with him. All we do is bicker & we are less romantic. I have a flirting problem.When my relationship gets bad I turn to other guys. I don't know y I do it. I want attention from other guys when my bf doesn't give me enough. It is an addiction. My bf and I can not hang out alone until I am 16, in 1 year bc my parents r strict. We have to hang out with other ppl but we talk on the phone every day. On Monday I took a ride home with a kid in my class, Derrick, he is 17, who I am friends with and used to like me. I led him on 3 months ago.Then I realized my bf was more important. Derrick and I started flirting again in the car, he gave me rides home all week. 2day he came in my house. We made out on my bed & he touched me places. I REALLY like him. I didn't even feel bad about it.I told my bf cuz we are honest with eachother. He said I could see other ppl.He was so sad. I know he has always been
2007-04-13 16:02:32 · 18 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Sports ➔ Football (American)
I know he has always been there for me. I just feel like I do not want to let him go bc we have been together for so long but I really want to date other ppl but still be with him at the same time bc I am young and I feel like I shouldn't be stuck with 1 person. I don't know what to do I feel so bad if I left my boyfriend but I really want to see what this other guy is like. My boyfriend told me he loves me so much and I cried. Help I do not know what to do!!! Also I know this has nothing to do with football... I just wanted a guy's perspective on it
2007-04-13 16:03:52 · update #1
u obviously lost interest in ur bf, seems to me that the only reason why u still feel that way about him is because he was probably the only thing u had those years.
if he thinks its a good idea to start seeing other ppl then thats probably what he wants too.
but first u need to talk to him and make SURE that this is what he wants to do. And just dont start dating automatically...wait a good week at least. Im sure ur (former) bf will find someone too.
2007-04-13 16:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by shay 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if you are going to be a flirt you need to leave your boyfriend, out of respect for him, yea he said he didnt care if you saw other people but does he mean it, or is that a way to keep you and make you happy at the same time....as far as the derrick guy, he wants to get in your pants which is the last thing you need to be letting happen right now, if you would have not made out with him, or stopped him from touching you would he still like you or would he get pissed....prolly he would get pissed....then he would get what he wants and you would be known as the 15 year old slut who puts out.....hes got one thing on his mind...he gets it then realizes that his friends are giving him a hard time because he cant get a girl his own age...then youre history.....you need to have some respect for yourself....and for your current boyfriend....sounds like to me your parents should lock your *** up for a few years....my suggestion is to talk to your boyfriend and let him know where you would like to "better" your realtionship....sounds like to me you dont need a boyfriend....youll break to many hearts....then nobody is going to want to be with you....youre too young be smart there is so much more to life then who you flirt with and get to "want " you....dont be dumb...once again...have respect for yourself....
2007-04-13 23:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by bdub 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
youre 15 TRUST ME youre going to date 10-20 other guys b4 you find "the one"...this is not as big of deal as you think. 5 years from now youll be laughing when you look back on this.
2007-04-14 12:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by FIGHT ON! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u girl? im 15 and that just sounds deep lol. ur right thats not football but u are probably doing stuff u shouldnt be anyway, just the kinda girl i hate but since u already made out with that other dude just play them both u already sound like a ho.
2007-04-14 01:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know. Date the guy how plays football. Why is this in the football category?
2007-04-14 00:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Rockin' Mel S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have a flirting problem because you are a $lut........and really.....please keep that kind of stuff to yourself.....if your not 16 yet then your too young for that. Dont ruin your life, and your boyfriends life, and your parents lives, ect.
2007-04-13 23:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by R52L 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
ya, flirting can b dangerous so if your not dating the guy, DONT DO IT!!!
and y is this in the football section?
2007-04-13 23:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by 17227 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like i want to beat the shat out of you because you sound dumb. he fondles u and ur being used, alot. Cry some more n00b
2007-04-13 23:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by wu-tang 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
effin ho...thats all i have to say...your bf should leave you. your what 15 or something and this 17 year old. I tell you what he wants. a piece of you and then hes gone. your a retard
2007-04-13 23:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by firefighter7805 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Whichever one of them is a jets fan go with. if neither of them find someone who is a jets fan
2007-04-14 01:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by scottnyj776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋