i have been dating this girl for about 6 months now. everything we have is awesome. she was a virgin until she met me...well it took 4 months until we had sex...but just everything we do and say is great. here is the catch, she is in college where i have my career which i will never change b/c i have worked too hard to get to where i am at today. she is gone for 14 wks. (summer jobs/internships) this and next year b/c of her college programs that she is in. she has told me once she is done in 2009, she is leaving the city and going to another one where there is a future for her career. so where do i stand here? do i keep going, or do i move? i know i am not leaving this city b/c of my job....but she moves away in may of 2009! as much as i adore her...once she is gone this summer, i think i should look somewhere else. am i right?
2007-04-13 15:47:31 · 4 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
2009 is still well into the future. People change, their plans change and their feelings change too. Maybe you should just take this relationship for what its worth right now and wait and see what happens.
2007-04-13 15:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by chr1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have only been dateing for 6 months.........what kind of job do you have...........you both have dreams of your own but it doesnt mean you have to break up over the dreams you want to have in life...just see how she goes in the 14 wks that she is doing the (summer jobs/internships) its only 07 you have 2 years to both talk about what you both want to do in 09........you know you love this girl and you want to be with her.......you can both have your dream and also be together were you are now or where she is going in 09........its up to you what you really want and what she wants........and what you both think is right for each other........sit down and talking about with each other
2007-04-13 23:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which is more important, love or money...honestly, this isn't an either or...there are many options and alternatives (brainstorm some, use it as a theoretical dialogue to engage her in, and see what you both come up with) dating someone 6 months is too early to be planning a lifetime anyways...relax
2007-04-13 23:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm if you love her follow her but if your yet to feel as tho you wud marry her then move on...your carrer is important so yea.
2007-04-13 22:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by Puertoricanmami<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋