i had this big problem with my friend and we dont talk anymore, i try 2 make things rite wit her and tell her i dont have any problems with her but she still makes tension and does things that bother me...im tired of talkin 2 her b/c i kno she doesnt care and sometimes im scared of wat she can do and wat is going on in her mind. i just want 2 forget all about her and not make her my number 1 priority and move on with my life. i dont want to worry about her 24/7 n wat shes thinking and how i kan protect myself if anything crazy happens. i dont kno wat this is b/c this is the 1st time i've been like this before but how can i overcome fear and just b happy with myself and not be so scared of her and worry about wat shes thinking.
2007-04-13 14:34:19 · 4 answers · asked by sh0rty2xclu5iv3 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Breaking up with a friend is a scary, horrible experience, and that it why you are feeling so unsettled. You need to cut her out of your life, or at least out of your friendship circle. Over time you will feel better and make new, and better friends. One day she may tell you what was going on inside her, but right now she may not understand it herself.
2007-04-13 14:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try chanting the maha mantra (the great mantra for deliverance from suffering fear and illusion) go to harekrishnatemple.co for details. Read Bhagavad Gita As it is By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada (you can read on line) tells how to overcome all fear even fear of death. It is truly amazing. This material world is full of so many dangerous and miserable things but by this simple process one can become beyond all of it (in the world but not of it)
2007-04-13 21:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"THE THINGS WE FEAR THE MOST, ARE THE THINGS WE NEED'NT HAVE FEARED AT ALL"
Can't remmember the person that titled it, but at 63 it has been sooo true many times in my life. I could go on and on, but I think the saying says it all. Maybe 1 of you other answerers know his name. He is from a while back, and used to pick on Presidents. Was his name Will something?
2007-04-13 22:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by I feel better 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she hasnt did anything yet and probably wont stop worrying
2007-04-13 21:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋