How come no matter how often we have sex, my husband can't last longer than a minute?

Question

We have sex quite a bit, sometimes everyday, or a couple times a day, and it doesn't matter.

Answer 1

Well it sounds like you have sex often enough like you say sometimes every day. For most men that would make them last a bit longer on the next round. Your guy sounds like a Minuteman. From a purely biological standpoint this is actually an advantage. In the animal kingdom... most intercourse only last a few seconds. Last thing you want to have if you're an animal is having sex for one time and having some other animal come up and bite you in the ***.

His probably inherited that unfortunate trait. Some males are very sensitive down there and others are not. The ones that aren't as sensitive are going to be able to last a long longer.

Some methods like stopping and squeezing the shaft then going at it again.... in repeating. Sometimes help the guy lasts longer. But this requires doing this all the time until the time period is long enough that you're happy with. In this case medicines like Viagra will not work at all since they're only function is to maintain an erection. Once the male orgasms chemicals are released that caused the erection to go down. Even here in each male is different some can recover quickly and be ready to go others might take a day or more.

There are a couple of medicines now on the market that were designed for men with premature ejaculation. Technically he does not have that... since by its technical term it means to ejaculate before intercourse. But most doctors understand and these drugs which have been prescribed for depression have a unique side effect of suppressing the male orgasm. The effect can be modest or give great improvement. It depends on the individual.

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Answer 2

do it more than once in the same session, or get some of that lotion that desensitizes his penis while you do it. if he cant last more than a minute, and wow you must be so hot you re on fire!! but i digress. try that lotion, its in most adult novelty stores. if that doesn't work, just get that one minute out of the way real quick with like a hand job or bj, and then after he has a second to regroup, go at it again, the second time is always longer than the first. trust me. results guaranteed ;-)

Answer 3

Hi,
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Hope this helps

Answer 4

The problem is not his, it's yours. You have an affliction known as the "Golden Vagina" syndrome. In other words, you're so good that no man can last more than 60 seconds.

Answer 5

He's only good for 30 seconds with me.

Answer 6

Probably both of you are "newly weds" and any inexperienced man is inclined to do it faster than a woman finds satisfactory.try talking about this problem and both work toward solving this. you will enjoy the 'experiment's guarantee you!

Answer 7

because he cares more about getting off than satisfying you. Don't listen to all this golden vagina crap. Men will **** anything most of the time, and still last a minute.

Answer 8

Passion, I think its the anticipation of going through the motions that makes a guy go quicker...I say that because when the relationship is new...there is alot of passion and who knows where its going to lead...so things tend to last longer..but when its you know that time, you know whats going to go on...you kinda go through the motions and the end result comes so much quicker...if you can talk to him about it and ask him what might work you might find out a method that works...at least you can have fun trying...good luck.

Answer 9

Premature ejaculation was really affecting my life and my relationship with my partner. I went to the doctor who helped me with some drugs. The outcome wasn't completely satisfatory so I decided to test this natural method http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=565

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Answer 10

It's called premature ejaculation and your husband can get help. Bellow is some links for both of you to look at...good luck