Anywayz I told one of our friends from school that I was pregnant by the guy I'm seeing (reminder: No one from school or any of his friends know that he's with his ex. He keeps his personal life a secret. I just happened to get a little nosey). The friend said something to the guy I'm seeing and the guy got up set with me and said I don't need to be telling anyone what goes on between us. Especially the baby. He said that I need to consult with him first. Is it wrong for me to say something? It's my baby to.....
2007-04-13 10:53:48 · 13 answers · asked by Brittney 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
wow hunny, he seems to be a very controlling person, you are your own person, and yes that is your baby to! so who you tell about the baby is your business. By the way how old are you?
2007-04-13 10:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by Diana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want someone to pay for breaking apart your marriage, yet at the same time as it is composed of newborn help, the be sure of the youngster might want to pay. Your spouse became to blame for her own movements, and it became her determination to dedicate adultery. She must have realized at that factor that a guy prepared to bypass after a married female doesn't be an excellent capture. bypass after your ex spouse for newborn help and to implement visitation together with her newborn. only because she pawned off her youngster in the course of the summer season visitation together with her sister and this guy does no longer lead them to financially to blame on your daughter. no matter if he HAD married your ex, newborn help ought to were her duty, no longer his, to pay. you may want to comprehend that it's not the adult males fault that your ex won't be able to paintings. She chooses no longer to paintings and is using the placement as an excuse or clarification why she will be in a position to't. She made blunders, in spite of the indisputable fact that that's time for her to reinforce up and take duty for the youngster she has. The drama filled situation she were given herself into is now over so she desires to move on verses stay on it.
2016-11-23 17:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by sauter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell your parents.
If this guy was married how old is he?
If you are under age have this guy arrested for rape.
Then haul his rear end to court and get court ordered child support payments.
Finally, tell this controlling jerk to take a chill pill.
Who knows how many other kids this guy has
fathered.
You are not married to this guy. You do NOT have to take orders from him.
Finally, get to a doctor and start taking care of yourself and your baby.
(Personal opinion)-do not marry this creep. He is abusive and will hurt you. He doesn't love you.
He never has. He just used you to keep himself happy.
2007-04-13 11:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fully agree with all the previous answers! you dont need to consult with him first. excuse me but thats some bullshit. You shouldn't have to cover the mistakes he made. I say find someone that can help you and your child and the only relationship you can have with him is the child support checks. and if he changes you should let him see the kid... if hes man enough to admit his mistakes, that is. Good luck and I'll be praying for you!
2007-04-13 11:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Joyous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want anyone to know about you and the baby, how do you know that he's not planning to hurt you or the baby? I just want you to be safe. Even men who you trust can hurt you in the most awful way. Please just be safe. Tell someone what is going on, anyone. I suggest your parents or a counselor.
Best of luck to you. Be safe, and be happy you're going to be a mummy!
2007-04-13 11:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO it is not wrong and yes it is your baby. If he did not want any one to know then he should have kept is pants up. He is mad because now his wife mite find out what kind of person he is. It is you child too, I say tell the whole world.
2007-04-13 11:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by vrs31proverbs31 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This man is using you. If you are keeping the baby, don't feel you need to keep secrets. He's the one cheating on his ex and you and your baby are about to be the losers.
2007-04-13 10:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy to controlling and you dont need a boy that isnt proud of you and proud of your new baby. You need to lose him the only readson hes mad is because hes scared your going to blow his cover with him and his xwife getting back together....cut the strings now
2007-04-13 10:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, too, ok? Tell SOMEONE the facts. The sad truth is that murder is the #1 cause of death in pregnant women! And they are usually killed by their significant other!
2007-04-13 11:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by purplebinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say whatever you want, and move on. He probably doesn't want his ex to find out. Don't see him anymore, if he wants to be with his ex let him. And take him to court for child support. You can do better.
2007-04-13 11:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by H57heiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋