I have a friend named Pat. Pat has a friend named Joe. I've seen Joe once or twice but I never got to talk to him that much.I want to get to know him better. Pat keeps saying, "If I tell Joe that you like him, he is going to kill me!" Pat says that Joedoesn't like girls. (He's not gay, though)So I asked Pat to tell Joe that I like him. Pat is really bugging the hell out of me. I saw him yesterday and he was like, "Joe doesn't like girls they uh, distract him uh, from his sports." So then I said, "He's probably just afraid to get rejected." So then Pat was like, "Uh, I mean a girl stalked him last year. His older brother went out with this girl, uh, Mary But um, she dumped his brother and asked Joe out, but they didn't go out."
Yesterday, Pat kept brushing up against me and flirting with me. My friends overheard him telling his friends that I'm freakin hot and other crap like that. Pat has lied to me before so I wonder if hes lying about Joe not liking girls. What should I do?
2007-04-13 10:40:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Pat was getting very close to me yesterday. Too close for comfort. He was brushing up against me, "playfully"(thats what he said when I told him to stop) kicking my leg under the table, and other annoying flirty stuff like that. I don't like him. Can't he get the hint??
2007-04-13 10:50:59 · update #1
Well I think you should tell Pat off for doing that to you and ask another friend to tell Joe that you like him.
2007-04-13 10:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask Joe yourself. If you don't feel comfortable doing that so soon, try to get to know him better and become better friends. Invite him out with you and a couple other friends (preferably without Pat).
2007-04-13 10:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Pandalinn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find Joe, tell him you like him, live happily ever after and Pat might just back off.
Or, just tell Pat to stop. Tell him that you honestly don't like him, and that you're not comfortable with the way he's treating you. And if he doesn't back off, then stay away from him.
2007-04-13 10:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pat likes you and wants to eliminate the competition, Joe, by lying to you.
I think you already know this.
2007-04-13 11:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh, boys are soo annoying sometimes! lol
Maybe you can look up Joe's myspace(if he or you have one?) or maybe if he has an AIM account, you could talk to him on those?
And just tell Pat that you don't like him, that's all it takes.
When I used to like this one boy, I was stupid enough to write a love letter to him when I was really young though, and he told me that he didn't like me back, I was heart-broken but yet idk sorta relieved?! it was weird, but anyway
I wouldn't suggest to write a kiddy love letter, just try to get Pat to back off and Joe to get closer to you, see if he flirts with you.
2007-04-13 10:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to joe yourself and find out whats really going on
2007-04-13 10:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Persona 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to joe urself
2007-04-13 10:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by ~^*Me*^~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋