my wife to be very soon told me that once she will get pregnant we can't make love for the first 3 months?

Question

of her pregnancy , as far as I know things aren't like that ,
what do you advise ?

Answer 1

as far as i know, you can make love up until the day the baby is born. The baby is fully protected in the womb so it won't hurt the baby any. the position just needs to be comfortable for her. Once she does get pregnant i would have her talk to her doctor about it, they will let her know that it is perfectly ok!

Answer 2

Unless advised by her doctor there is no reason not to have sex through out the pregnancy. Its six weeks after the baby is born that sex is advised against as your wife will be very fertile. Besides that your wife will not want sex right after the baby. A word of warning when I was pregnant with my son i could not stand a man near me. Even the smell of a man made me sick! Good luck! My husband survived without looking for a woman.

Answer 3

That's silly. Of course if you tell her that she won't believe you. Why don't you ask her to ask a Dr.'s advice.

You could tell her that there are many women out there that don't even know they are pregnant for 2 or 3 months so if these women still were having sex then what would she say?

I do know that not all women enjoy sex during pregnancy because it just feels different but the only thing a Dr. tells you is that generally after the first trimester to restrain from rough sex but as long as you enjoy sex there's no harm for the baby.

Answer 4

You can have sex during a normal pregnancy. If there are complications or something your doctor will tell you if you need to leave off. Also, during the last month it may be recommended that you not have sex.

After the baby is born you won't be able to have sex for a few weeks while your wife's body heals. Again, your doctor will give you basic guidelines, but it's different for everyone. It's just when your wife feels like she is up to it again.

Answer 5

Has she ever has a problem with miscarriage? I have a friend who has had miscarriages a few times and her doctor did tell her to ease off the sex until the ultrasound to make sure everything is OK. She has a weak uterus or something like that. But AFTER the baby is born, you are not supposed to have sex for 6-8 weeks. You'll be so tired anyway, who has the time with a newborn. Anyway, you should have your "wife to be very soon" (or nowadays they call them fiances) why she made that statement.

Answer 6

Go to her next docs appointmnet and ask him this question in front of her so she gets the answer at the sametime as you and there will be no disputing the answer. I think she got some bad advice from someone. I had sex with my husband the day I found out I was pregnant and the week before I gave birth and within 2 months after I had the baby.

Answer 7

Generally, no, that is not the case. Usually, intimacy can continue until she is too far along to be comfortable, around 8 months. Then there is no more until at least 4 weeks after the baby, but that is contingent on individual health and healing; you'd talk to her doctor, together, at that point.

This may be something from an older relative, a family myth, or something like that.

Answer 8

That is only because she does not want to have sex. There is nothing wrong with having sex during pregnancy unless there is a problem with the pregnancy and her doctor advises against it. You can have sex the entire time she is pregnant without any problems as long as you are not rough with her.

Answer 9

you can have sex, there's nothing or anyone that says you can't, unless, there's something medically wrong that the dr wants you to abstain for fear of miscarriage or something.

one thing to remember, though, is that if she is having morning sickness, which isn't just in the AM, she might not like all the movement. sex used to make me want to puke when i was pregnant. it'd be fine at first and then i thought i was seasick!!

so, just follow her lead and let her tell you what she wants.
even if you don't have sex much when she's pregnant (don't worry, most women go through a horny phase during pregnancy) it's o.k. still make her feel beautiful b/c her body will be going through a LOT of changes.

my husband wasn't really into my pregnancy and it made me sad. i LOVED being around other guys b/c they would make me feel so pretty and sexy. they would rub my tummy and that was AWESOME. for whatever reason, my husband just wasn't into it. so sad.

don't be like HIM!!!

Answer 10

It is safe to have sex though out your pregnancy unless there is complications. When I was pregnant, I was in the mood all the time! Especially those first few months!
It is safe. Tell her to look it up on line or in a pregnancy book, it will tell her the truth and she will know for herself. People do it all the time, my baby is just fine.