Ive been with my boyfriend for a lil under 5 years, but for SOME reason Ive been curious about being with another girl, I dont want to bring in the girl into our relationship because Im the most jealous person in the universe, But im curious about being alone with one, Im almost 19 so I dont know if this is normal to even be thinkin about this.
2007-04-13 03:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you have been with your bf since you were 13-14...... you should not tether yourself while you are in the developmental stages. live life!
2007-04-13 03:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is natural to think about things like that. Acting on the feelings is a different thing. I think you should either stay with your boyfriend if these are just thoughts or if you think it may be more then you need to break up with your boyfriend and go from there. It wouldn't be fair to your boyfriend, you, or the new girl you date to cheat or put yourself out there if your really not free to date, aka, in a relationship. You are just curious right now or questioning. That doesn't make you bisexual or a lesbian, your just questioning. Go to the HRC web-site for more information.
2007-04-13 05:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal! So don't feel bad about it at all. Most girls get the curious bug, not all act on it. your choice!
Personally, I agree about bringing in the 3rd...you don't want jealousy to get in the relationship.
You can always keep it a fantasy, or if the time/right girl happens try and see if you like it. I found it to be amazing.
Enjoy and be safe.
2007-04-13 03:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's common. It's called being bisexual. If your boyfriend is ok with it, then give it a try. Five years is a good run. I wouldn't suggest screwing it up over a one-time thing with some random woman.
2007-04-13 03:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try it.
find a girl who you can experiment with (let her know its only an experiment so she dosnt like fall in love with you) and see what its like. if you enjoy it then maybe you bi, if not its no big deal and you can go back with yuour boyfriend and pretend it never happened
best of luck
2007-04-13 04:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, it is not normal to even think about this.. You would be "cheating" on your boyfriend and it could ruin that relationship.
2007-04-13 03:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋