2007-04-13 01:39:41 · 40 answers · asked by $mitty Cent 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Uuuuum, let me think about it............NOOOOOOOOOOO!! .............. Are you demented?? I'd surely die of a broken heart!! ...........:0)
Sorry, I didn't really mean the demented crack, geez, I hope you ARE just joking, aren't you?????????
PEACE
2007-04-13 01:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Minx 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I hope you did go through all 39 answers up to this point.. I trust that I've raised my sons to the best of my ability by the time they are old enough to marry. I trust that my boys are smart enough to have gone through every emotion of why, or why not before they'd decide to marry. And if it's their decision, I'd probably respect that it must be a true leap of faith to marry someone 55 years older, knowing how society, much less their parents would respond to it. I trust their judgement, and respect how hard it must have been to tell me, worryng what everyone might think about their decision. I would give them advice on how to avoid some of the problems alot of marriages go through, but would be nothing but supportive. I'd hope I would be sensitive enough of their feelings not to tease, but don't guarantee I wouldn't here and there. ;-) There's no more amazing thing I've found in my life than love. If my son finds love, regardless of the circumstance, then I'm happy for him, and wish him nothing but the best! I also advise anyone thinking of marrying that love doesn't do it all, and any relationship takes communication, self-sacrifice, and being open and understanding of the person you're with. I think respect may be the greatest asset to any relationship. I hope that everyone out there finds true happiness and love for someone in their lives, and hope you're having a great day!! ;-)
2007-04-14 03:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a man who maried a woman who is about 40 years older than him.
I personally thought it was strange at first, but the couple seemed to really love each other, and the mother of the husband seemed to be OK with the two of them getting married.
I guess it really all depends on what your son and his potential bride are like together. I would still make him think long and hard about his intention to marry this older woman - perhaps he's lost in love? Ask him some hard questions, and make him think.
2007-04-13 01:45:59 · answer #3 · answered by Skoota 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well If my son needed my permission that means he is underage so No... now if he is 18 or older then I have no say so In the matter.... I would highly advise against it but what can u do... I would always call her grandma though.. My son is 13 now So Definetly no... He cant even Brush his teeth on a regular basis let alone change his wifes diapers..
2007-04-13 01:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I, as a mother of a grown son, could stop an adult son from doing what he set out to do, but I sure wouldn't like it and would talk with him about the pros and cons of his decision.
He'd be old than his own mom-----me!
2007-04-13 01:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your son of legal age? If so..there's nothing you can do about it.
Respect shown to him by telling him how you honestly feel- if it makes you uncomfortable and the reasons...find out his feelings and the reasons. This is your child and you should be open to talk anytime!
It is ultimitely his decision and even if he's a grown man- he will always feel a need to have you by his side.
2007-04-13 01:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If my son was 21 and didn't need me to sign for him I wouldn't have a thing to say about who he chose to marry now would I?! I would wonder about his motives. I would very much sit him down and question his intent. But as long as it was true love I would support him fully.
2007-04-13 01:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My sons are adults. While it would truly mystify, perplex and astonish me, I wouldn't be able to NOT allow them to marry a woman (or man) 155 years older. Because . . . they are ADULTS!!! And if they're not adults, they're not marrying anyone 55 minutes older than they are. They're not marrying period.
2007-04-13 01:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by HipHopGrandma 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guess it kinda depends on the situation, and you can tell him what you think, but if hes old enough to be getting married, in the end he is going to do what he wants to do. Hopefully he will decided not to do it though becuase that is just disgusting!
2007-04-13 01:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Smile it's Sarah!! =] 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
id say your son really needs a lot of help...marrying a woman who is old enough to be his grandmother!!?? its ridiculous!! do NOT allow your son to ruin his life like this
2007-04-13 01:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should phone the men with the white coats. Your son sounds like either a very sick individual or a pervert. I think he needs to be locked up
2007-04-13 01:43:36 · answer #11 · answered by Sean D 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋