another young boy hangs himself over school bullies?

Question

he was 13 years old!!!!

were you bullied at school? how did it effect you?

were you a bully? do you not feel guilty and ashamed?

are you a bully at school? if so can you not see what you are doing is killing people?

peta get a life you sd cow moo moo this was a 13 year old child!!! i hope if you ever have children they do not get bullied

Answer 1

OMG! That sucks!

Answer 2

I was bullied wen i was 10. I'm 13 now and no one even thinks about bullying me. let me explain. when i was 10, i was big, but i was also fat, looked really ugly and was unfit. ppl bullied me cus i didn't defend myself. I couldn't because the went in packs of about 5. Then I was unfit so i was scared of fighting back cus i knew i would lose. I didn't tell on them cus then they would bully me more, i just bore it. At first I became a bully to the newer kids. i was trying to be accepted as one of them. everyone was a bully so i had no friends. I'm damn ashamed of what i did to some new kids, and even had the guts to apologize later(of my own accord).
Then I started working out 2 hours a day not including sport. Now as a 13 year old, I'm 5 ft. 11", weigh a hefty (not fat) 67 kg (145 lbs) and am made of mainly muscle. if anyone tries to bully me I fight them and always win. i met one of my former bullies in the mall once and beat the **** out of him.

I'm just glad i had the willpower to survive it until i could fight back. 1 thing that helped was my religion. it says that you should take all the hardships in life, because god is testing you, and your reward at the end will be greater than any you could receive in life.

Answer 3

Where did this happen?
Go to www.jaredstory.com
I myself was bullied in school by my peers and
teachers and I have come close to killing my self.
I am so sick and tired reading on yahoo answers
that some kids deserve it.
I would llike to know more about this,please
email me [e-mail]
In 2004 here in Columbus Ohio a 15 year old
high school kid threw himself in front of a train
because he was bullied for years at school.
Also remember Columbine,It makes me sick
there are so many people around the world
make the killers out to be heroes-the question
is are they getting bullied?

Answer 4

It's sad. I can't remember not being bullied ... it still goes on (I'm 41) but in a muted form, I find myself thinking 'at least I'm not being beaten up any more.'

I used to self harm, I still have scars. When I was about 14, I took my tongs and burnt each finger, just pressed the tip of the tongs against each one and watched. I nursed those blisters like they were babies; I told my parents that I'd accidentally put the hot tongs on top of my hand.

I'd punch my arm until it bruised, or when 'shaving my leg' take the top layer of flesh off - I only ever abused my left side for some reason, probably because I'm right handed and could control it easier.

I try not to do it now, I'm older and .. ahem, wiser but I have a huge blister on my right leg - no idea where that came from, I've had it about twenty years though but every once in a while it will 'burst'. I suppose, I subconsciously know that the scorn and critcism will stop for a while and I'll get sympathy.

I think the worst case of bullying I had to endure is when I went on an outward bound holiday with Springboard when I was a teenager. They sent us on a camping expedition without any supervision. There were a couple of glue sniffers in the group who lost no time in getting high. I was used to them pouring cold water over me so on the last night of the expedition, I felt the cold liquid go over my head and was just going to wait for them to lose interest in the nerd and go to bed.

Then it got into my eyes and started to sting, it was what was left of the cooking meths. I obviously started to scream and while the other girls walked me down to the Windermere to wash it off (this was at midnight) I opened my eyes because I felt flickers of warmth - turned out they were sparking their lighters at me.

God was with me that night and there was absolutely no breeze, the air was still and nothing happened.

I told our supervisor when I got back and he told me to stop moaning (I'd upset him a few nights before when he'd walked into the girl's bedroom at 11pm with just a small towel around him and I was the only one to turn my back on him and before that, I'd rebutted an advance he'd made)

I didn't dare tell my parents, Dad would have gone for that sleeze and I dread to think what Mam would have done.

But that's the thing about bullies, they survive because they know their victims are scared. I'm only telling you lot this because you don't know who I am.

If there's anyone out there who is getting bullied. I've been there, I know how hard it is and the best thing you can do is to go to someone strong - I should have told my parents. It's not right and it has to be stopped. Can anything they do in revenge be as bad as what you're going through now?

Tell someone.

If you're a bully, do you realise that it stays with your victim for life? It's not just a bit of fun to them.

Answer 5

I had one at the same time as i became 14 which lasted until eventually eventually i became 15. And one with someone I beloved at the same time as i became 15, yet were given alongside with at the same time as i became 16, and now i'm 18 and we are nonetheless together. i don't think of you're too youthful for a boyfriend in any respect, yet do not assume it to very last perpetually. i'm delighted for you about the sex element, i imagine it really is rather major that you've an awareness :)

Answer 6

yes i was bullied at high school. it sucked i was tormented because of my race and due to my name. they took the piss out of it daily. back then i felt i didn't want to go to school due to the hell the i experienced. yes it was terrible and yes i hated it, but even though it got worse with the name calling , luckily for me it didn't get to a stage where i got beaten up. it is appalling that bullying still persists today and the dick heads who do this don't realise how much damage they have inflicted on their victims, emotionally. schools need to enforce stricter guidelines and expel bullies who intend on making kids lives worse. as for that 13 year old, all i can say is poor kid

Answer 7

i was bullied for being fat...
made my life hell, but the more i got bullied, the more i ate.
at 15, i realised, what am i doing...
dieted, and became accepted!!
I still hate confrontation, but am far stronger now, than i ever was....
Bullies are evil, and work off other peoples fears and problems.. in honesty, bullies are weak!
Todays bullies, are worse than in my day! kids are under more pressure too...so its just pants for them!
i think kids should not stand up to bullies, as usually it aggrivates the situation, but be able to confide in someone, who could then help...
i wish i could have talked to someone back in the 70s!

Answer 8

i have never been bullied at school and i never bully, if bullying is getting to a point that makes children want to hang themselve then i think something should be done because noone should be made to feel like they dont want to live anymore.

Answer 9

I was never a bully. I remember that a girl that rode my bus in elementary school was tormented by a 5th grader. She did think about runing away- whenever she told teachers, they never kept her information private so the bully got super angry with her. We finally grouped up and took her to a guidance counselor.

Bullies make me sick.

Answer 10

I was bullied in school. slammed into lockers. laughed at. made fun of.

I left school because of the people. and today, find it hard to be around people.

i guess it made me too senstive.

i do not blame people for killing themselves.

today at age 25, alone and sad, i have often wished not to wake up in the morning, and get disappointed when i do.

especially with the break up of my ex-wife and i.

she was 13 years older then i, and i thought the age difference would mean mature.

i was wrong.

just sad. sad this life.

Answer 11

I was made fun of for being poor at a private school, those fockers got their karma! More than half of them are now unhappy and divorced with brats running around! Losers!
The only people that are now doing well didn't work for it themselves, and they are living lies. I believe that you will only really appreciate the things that you work for in life.