I am in my late 20's, financially stable, reasonably good looking. Not drop dead gorgeous but ok.
I am a stud.
So why is it hard to find a good woman?
All the women I know are bisexual, (I dont get down like that)
Or they hate butches/studs (whats up with that)
2007-04-11 19:39:31 · 16 answers · asked by angelajock 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe all the women you have known so far are not representative of the entire lot. Why not expand your horizons, look beyond, and find a mate who desires you as much as you desire her. It is not as hard as you'd like to believe, have faith in yourself and the right woman will walk by. Just keep your eyes, heart and mind open.
2007-04-11 19:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A "good woman" may want a lot more than someone who is young, financially stable, and good-looking. These were not my main criteria when I was looking for a guy before I met my husband. My main criteria were
1. Does he have the same spiritual life and values as I do?
2. Is he trustworthy, respectful, honest, and wise?
3. Will he be faithful? Is he intelligent?
4. Will he accept me as I am, love me forever, and see me as beautiful just the way I am, inside and out?
5. Is he interested in a whole lot more than my appearance?
I hope this helps.
2007-04-12 02:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by seaturtle26j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not that its hard to find a good woman. Its hard to find the right person in general. You could be straight, gay or bi and its always hard to find a person that you can connect to and want to share a life with. The important thing to remember is that person is out there. And not just a person, its a lot of people that are out there that are going to love you for you. Its just that you have to find you're way to show the world what you can bring to the table in addition to the "junk in the trunk"
2007-04-12 02:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Advocate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to find a GOOD MAN too,
but they are out there!!
some people find their soul mate sooner than others.
I think the reason is because life is about to stumble and fall and be able to get back up stronger with more experience etc.
When you do meet that somebody,you know he/she didn't come easy,so you'll appreciate him/her more.
AND... you have gained some lessons in weakness and strenght on the way up until you find that person!
2007-04-12 02:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard to find a good woman and man these days because everyone is so into themselves, its what can you do for me not what i can do for others. dont get me wrong there are good ones out there like me but im a man sorry, you just have to look and when you do find one it doesnt mean they will like you because they too could be looking at someone else too
2007-04-12 03:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly : if you are in 20's you must look for a girl not a women.
hahah........
well i dont think so same.becasue this world is full with best & wonderful.Dont say that why its hard : because might you have not find that one whcih one you r looking of... may be.
2007-04-12 02:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously looking in the wrong places. Where are you looking, at bars and clubs?! haha. I don't know how every girl you meet is bisexual, that is so weird. Look for a girl at school, at work, or in church, not at some club or party all drunk
2007-04-12 03:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sexxiii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, you are looking in the wrong place here in the LGBT Category.
My stomach was growling the other day while I was noticing how dirty my floors were... that made me think about how hard it was to find a good woman. I need one to do my women's work!
2007-04-12 02:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Us chicks have the same prob. I'm 29, single, don't have kids, never been married. And i can't seem to find a guy my age who hasn't been married and has no kids out there. Lol maybe we should meet.
2007-04-12 02:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your locking for love in all the wrong places.
Change your life style and be as good as you want your woman to be and you will find her.
2007-04-12 02:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋