So, here's the thing: I'm a freshman in college, living on-campus. I am taking a break from college next year (don't try to dispute this, I'm not changing my mind).
I've known this guy since my junior year in high school, and we were really close friends. I hadn't talked to him in months, but just yesterday I called him to catch up, and later we hung out. Well, we basically went through our life stories of the past few months, and I told him about my plans.
Before yesterday, my only option for this summer was to go down to my grandparents' house, where I lived in high school, about an hour away. All my friends live up here, in the city I'm in now.
My friend has an apartment, and he offered me to live with him this summer. It would only be until I'm able to make enough money to get my own place.
My boyfriend got really upset and told me that it bothered him because he doesn't know him very well. He "changed his mind" today and told me he would be okay with it. What do you think?
2007-04-11 19:16:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It would be best to stay with your grandparents. You can save money, there won't be any problems with your boyf, you don't have to deal with any problems with your roommates and his friends. You are opening up for some trouble. Please take my advice, stay at your grandparents.
Don't give up your freedom and adopt to other people behaviors. If I was your grandpa, I would plead for you to stay until you save some money for your OWN place to live. Where you be boss of it! Also, I don't know why your boyf suddenly agree but be very suspicious of this, because many boyfs wouldn't accept it unless he plan to stay with you there too. If something goes wrong where you and your boy friend don't get alone with the renter...
Stay with your grandparents and get your own place later.
God Bless
2007-04-11 19:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.
If you move in with your friend, it'll only cause more potential problems with your boyfriend, which you really don't want to have. Keep looking for other alternatives for housing arrangements. Also, you're a girl - even if this guy is a friend of yours, your relatives, family members might be worried for you. And as always, better safe than sorry.
Good luck!
2007-04-12 02:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by fl0rabell3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would bother me that my boifriend jus changed his mind so suddenly..u might want to check him to make sure he doesnt get any ideas to cheat on u in his head...and if i were u i wouldnt stay with him out of simple respect for my boifriend. its gonna eventually cause some problems....
2007-04-12 02:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a guy, don't do it
thinking of your girlfriend living with another male stranger will drive a boyfriend nuts!!!!
2007-04-12 02:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jack O' Lantern 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.
Your friend might be ok,
but what about his friends?
You are playing with fire, you don't know them.
You have a Boyfriend, respect him and
don't do it.
2007-04-12 02:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend said it was okay with him an you want to.
Do it!
2007-04-12 02:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋