the first time you have sex and you don't want to get hurt, like you don't want to have a tourn va-j-j, what size does he need to be, can it be any size??
2007-04-11 15:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by nikki18218 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It can be any size. Remember your vagina can stretch to accomodate the birth of a baby so size is not really an issue.
2007-04-11 15:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, usually we don't have the pleasure and most the desire to go checking and measuring erections for our 'first time'.
The first time I had sex, I was quite drunk and haven't a clue on the size of his penis except that it was average and nothing interesting. It didn't hurt at all. There's no need to fear the pain of 'the first time'. Even women who do complain, don't see it as some severe traumatising event (without other reasons).
Just relax, use lots of lubricant and foreplay and have fun and perhaps a few drinks before hand. The 'first time' is over rated. It takes experience for sex to be a big deal.
2007-04-11 15:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to answer a question with a question, but if you do find out what size it needs to be, how will you find out from the lucky dude? Are you going to check him first and tell him, "no, it's not quite right" Seriously though, even if the guy is big, as long as he takes it slow and you use alot of lube, you will be fine.
2007-04-11 15:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by casper 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are worry about his size maybe you are not ready. The first I had sex it didn't cross my mind !!Anything bigger than what you have put in yourself (tampons) may cause pain or be enjoyable but you have to be ready and want it before you have sex. Hope it will be a better time than my first time
2007-04-11 15:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by pink lady d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Size really won't matter. Of course, bigger would hurt more, but any size will be uncomfortable the first time.
2007-04-11 16:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it can be any size. If you're worried about it you could always practice with your fingers and move up to larger things like a carrot. That way you're doing it at your own pace and you can stop whenever you want, without feeling obligated to continue like you would with a guy
2007-04-11 15:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A boy with 6 or less is best to start with. If he is bigger then you will have to take it slow. Just ask him if you can see it hard, every boy loves to show it to any girl that wants to look.
2007-04-11 15:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by mary s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it isn't the size it is the performance and if it is the first time let partner know so they can be slow and tender
2007-04-11 15:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by caffsans 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no matter what size it is,you may hurt or you may not hurt, everyone is different and only you can figure yourself out when it happens
2007-04-11 15:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by a_hopkins86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will tear no matter what....
but to make it feel better... use lots and lots of lub. ky jelly works fine.....
but yes.... part of losing your virginty is getting rid of your ...well...."cherry" it's gonna hurt no matter what... but it's not the worst pain youll ever feel.
if your ready... just make sure youre using protection... and lots of lube
2007-04-11 15:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by ErinJean 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋