I am one of those people that want to be more feminine. yes I'm a guy but the idea of being cute and girlie is so cool. I would even like to change parts of my personality to be more femy but my parents wouldn't approve and everyone would laugh at me and not understand. plus I get a little embarrassed at the thought of doing something like painting my nails pink.
what do I do. I have all this desirer to be a cute little girl but I'm a huge masculine gorilla
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2007-04-11 13:15:51 · 14 answers · asked by fay v 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
www.crossdressers.com is a good resource site where you can ask all the questions you want about the direction you want to go. There are a lot of CD's that can help provide you with direction if you want it.
2007-04-11 15:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by sapphire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to make sure you have a support group before you do anything visual. Whatever stress and backlash you incur from your parents or anyone else will be easier to take if you have someone to turn to. Also, make sure this is something you REALLY want to do. It's very hard to go backwards once you make a decision. And what about moving out? I don't know how old you are, but sometimes life is easier outside of the parents house.
2007-04-11 20:30:04 · answer #2 · answered by sick&tired 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! Not everyone will laugh or hate you for it. You can be girlie and feminine and still be a guy. I am assuming you are gay?? If you are not, then maybe you are, and are still unsure about it? But if you are straight, then you will probably be made fun of. If you were bi though it probably wouldn't matter. You just be who you want to be and dont try to be who other people want you to be. Otherwise you would live you life in a very unhappy way.
2007-04-11 20:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wax ya legs,chest and arms, paint ya toe nails wear a male thong use lip salve...like vaseline on ya lips,...
men can now buy shoes with a heel of course its a wide heel but still ya get to walk femaley
hand cream makes ya hands feel feminine n of course all this no one knows what ya up to cos it aint obvious,
i am sure if ya tell ya mum you wish you were more like her soft and kind in a loveing way then you may be able to tell the truth n mums know best i know im one my 7 year old likes to wear my clothes shoes make up etc...i hope its a vaaase???
but if not i let him try it its a unisex world nowa days...good luck
2007-04-11 20:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's totally normal. If you're in high school you might go through hell if you paint your nails or something, and if you don't mind that's great! If you do, my suggestion is to have 'Girl's Nights' by yourself and maybe wear some cute lacy panties under your boxers! :D
After you're eighteen or you move out, the world is your oyster.
2007-04-11 20:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you start by shaving your body?
getting a pedi-mani with out the pink nails?
(just natural shine)
2007-04-11 20:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by MarioV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well until you're comfortable with how people will look at you being feminine you shouldn't go all the way. try little but noticeable things first to see if you're comfy with it, then add more little by little
2007-04-11 20:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by fe_macc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look into your local lebian gay community center. they have tons of groups you can join. You can find friends that you can be "you" around them. These friends can help you come out with "your secret" if you want. Most have websites you can look at first
2007-04-11 20:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jenni Butter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could dye your hair, have a manicure or pedicure, etc. Do small things first and see how it is accepted. I just wouldnt go too overboard with it.
2007-04-11 20:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by jeremybradley2562 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do I get the sneaking suspicion that you're just f*cking with us?
2007-04-11 20:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by Venus Mantrap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋