are actors really true sometimes too?

Question

heres the deal:
I fell in love with an Indian actress a few days ago. Now you know, as much as we try to avoid the thoughts, I had dreams of becoming a very big man with lots of money and marrying her by the time she is like 30 something and I am 20 something, because there is a 7 yr age difference. I found out that she is marrying a 40 yr old ex-criminal actor who looks really good. This made me think: Why is she marrying a man with a history of beating his girlfriends? Of poaching an endangered species and of killing poor people who were sleeping on the sidewalk while he was drunk driving. Is it simply for his looks? Then I read mroe about the actress and found that she is actually very nice, but in a few interviews she said things like "I didnt wear make-up during the shooting of a so-and-so movie because London gilrs generally dont(she was playing an indian brought up in london), but then she said, indian actresses go crazy putting on make up to look like londoners. Then I found

that although she likes to dress up in covered up clothing, when she did her first movie, she played a very sensual scene in which she did many sex-related things, but never really had sex. Dont get me wrong, I still think she is an awesome person, and I really love her, but it seems to me that she is not THE BEST person in real life, and that her looks can fade over time so what is left? She has said MANY MANY nice things, and has helped the poor and stuff, but she seems to be more materialistic? Plus I loved photos of her like this:
http://www.bollywood4u.com/wallpapers/800x600jpg/katrina_kaif_001_disp.jpg

but there were pics like this:
http://www.bollywoodblog.com/images/763_Katrina%20Kaif.jpg

in which i think she still looks beautiful, but it looks like she does use make-up or is tired. anyways, do you think she is not the person I'd hoped she'd be? Are any actors really NON-MATERIAL? Do you think she is one of them?

Answer 1

yea i think so sometimes

Answer 2

well you are growing up mate, it happened to me 10 years ago when i was 15, it happens to most of us in this period, I loved this actress too, i actually dreamt of being with her, making tons of money too, same thing, nothing physical, i smiled when she smiled, well afterwards she went to south indian movies, i actually thought of learning her language too, but never got around doing it, it has been ten years now, i still like her. not her acting but her.

But seriously, you never know how they are in real, I am engaged now i i love my fiancee much more than her, But still i do love her. I hope my fiancee dont see this, ha ha

You will never forget her even when you are 60. All i can say is make money thats the only way. Maybe we should do a business together, its too late for me man, mine one got married too, but hey money can change things cant they.. not too late then, lets both of us make £10 million each in one yr.

If you are wondering who the actress was, it was Jyothika and the movie i saw was Doli Saja Ke Rakhna.