Is it true that women never forget the 1st man they did "it" with?

Answer 1

unfortunately yes it is.

Answer 2

Yes. The way sex was intended, it was supposed to be one man and one woman, for life. So in view of that, sex creates permanent bonds/ties to another person. It is very hard to give someone your all after you've been with someone else, because at the psychic level, you're "married" to that other person.

These bonds and the attempts at disregarding/breaking them are responsible for a lot of problems. A lot of marriages don't work out because the people involved had sex with others and still have the psychic bonds. Nobody can ever compare to your first, but that doesn't keep some people from looking over and over.

These bonds may be part of the reason why some men kill their ex-partners, though cruelty, possessiveness, and a psychopathic nature may be the major parts of it.

These bonds may be why some people are trapped in alternative lifestyles. A person may have mistakenly thought of themselves as gay or they may have been sexually abused. That may not have been their orientation, but it is nature to want to try to recreate the first experience, even if it was abusive, and even if it was just an experiment. But overall, I don't see this as the cause of most same-sex behavior.

This bond theory has the most serious implications when it comes to deviant sexuality. A person who has had sex with a child or an animal will most likely do it again. They are compelled in addition to whatever initial reasons to try to recreate the first experience. They have "alien bonds" but cannot seem to break them or the power that they have over them.

Answer 3

Yes that is true women never forget their first love. Because some females mature faster than some males, they cherish the experience and it actually means something to them verses inexperienced immature males!

Answer 4

Yes it's true. Personally I guess it evokes a sense of pride in both parties if you are still together with the person who took your virginity and if it was also their first time. You will trust each other for life.I don't know what people who sleep around think maybe they will forget about that first experience.

Answer 5

Yes! We remember things like that because parents make it out to be such a big thing (not to do), and it's "all the rage" when we were in school, that it's something you remember deciding if you would or not. Plus, you remember it for any number of reasons. Such as pressure from your boyfriend or your friends to lose your virginity, or because you honestly thought you were in love, and that was the clincher that "sealed" the deal that you guys were "in love".......

Answer 6

It seems like one way or another, bad or good, women never forget the first one. It's like the first memory, ever.

Answer 7

Of course not.
That's a major part of someone's life. To most women that is sacred and with someone they care for tremendously (note I said most women)

Answer 8

I don't know about real life sex partners. I, personally, cannot remember the first fictional character I had a naughty fantasy about. But that was long ago...

Answer 9

Of course it is for me, b/c I was never drunk to the point I'd forget.
You think that's true for everyone?
Probably close to everyone.
Still, I don't think we can make broad generalizations.

Answer 10

Well, it's true for me! I would say it's true for 98% of women.

Answer 11

Men don't typically forget their first time either. Did you forget yours? I haven't forgotten mine....