here is were it starts my boyfriend gets a call from a girl, Jenni, tells her okay great i'll call you back, then for about an hour goes screws around in our garage then comes in the house and tells me he needs to go for a walk and think on somethings, its 9:16. so he goes on his walk no big deal when he comes home at 10:25 he is out of breath and puts his cell phone next to me on the arm of it not even 3 sec later it rings and its jenni asking if she can come by and say hi. later after she left i checked his cell phone and he called her at 9:25 then she called at 10:25. do you think it was just a clever set up to sneak around behind my back or do you think im just blowing things out of perportion.
2007-04-11 07:39:25 · 14 answers · asked by mystic 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the thing is i know her too...AND i asked her if she saw donny while he was out she said no but she has slept with him before 4 years ago and i know she still likes him(before we were together) the only reason i even started to pay attention to his movements was because of the way he was acting otherwise i wouldn't have cared he also could have met her just so he could get high because he knows i don't approve of his drug habit.
2007-04-11 08:21:53 · update #1
The fact that you're keeping track of times and are watching him so closely suggests strongly that you know exactly what's going on. What you're really looking for here is confirmation.
Yes ma'am, he's running around on you. The digital readouts don't lie, and you know that. You need to kick him out of your life and find somebody who either tells the truth -- or at least does a better job of lying.
ADDENDUM:
Drug habit? Don't walk -- RUN from this relationship.
Not only is he lying to you, but he's wrecking his own body.
There's no up side to sticking with this person, dear lady. Dump him now and find yourself a nice man who tells the truth and doesn't have a drug habit.
2007-04-11 07:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia Fella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do is come right out and ask him to man up about whether or not he is fooling around. It will drive you crazy just thinking about it all the time. Life is too short to have to live like that. If he admits to it, move on. There must be some other reason you feel he is cheating if you think this was a set up and it does sound like one.
2007-04-11 07:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by ray ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible. All I can say is ask him about it, but he'll probably deny it, or keep your listening ears on and take note of the phone calls and if he needs to take a lot of long walks or needs to leave a lot for other reasons. Once would be a fluke, but if it is happening a lot, then there may be something going on there.
2007-04-11 07:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes sneaking around and why are other girls calling and wanting to come by when hes in a relationship with you ? Its sounds like you've got yourself a cheater honey get to the bottom of it and squash this quick !
2007-04-11 07:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jenni is making a move on your man..... and right in front of you. You need to set your man straight. Jenni needs to go.
2007-04-11 07:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted to talk to Jenni without you overhearing the conversation.
2007-04-11 07:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know if he's screwing around, but it does sound suspicious. Do a Veronica Mars.
2007-04-11 07:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a set-up, but not very clever. Pretty transparent, in fact.
2007-04-11 07:49:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him...but it sounds like something I wouldn't want to know about.
2007-04-11 07:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for an answer on this one you have answered it yourself. He obviously wanted to talk privately to her. If you don't know her.. you should by now.
2007-04-11 07:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋