Do you think calling the lines is cheating, wen you have been in a relationship for over 8 years?
2007-04-11 07:01:11 · 23 answers · asked by cheech 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes i do think its cheating hes actually talking to other women i also think its immature and perverted
2007-04-11 07:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes you are cheating on your spouse. Just becuase you may not be the whole physical realm you are using these for emotional and sexual gratification. It doe's not matter how long the relationship is whenever you find yourself doing something that is inappropriate and you know that it is disrespectful to the one you are with is wrong.
Consider this for instance you call these lines for a reason these ladies talk sexy etc. Have you ever considered that your wasting money talking to someone that is 400lbs and
could quite possibly be a guy?
Really though maybe it's time to bring some more action into the marriage since you need to chat on the phone to get your jolly's. Crap 8yrs what are you going to do when you hit 15yrs
probably will be sitting all alone because you not aware of the damage you are causing in your marriage.
PLEASE GROW-UP you only have a chance to be a real man once. Soon as you get that first divorce every women you may meet and get involved with will be asking why did he get divorced?
2007-04-11 07:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most people I know would consider it cheating. I think it is in a way. I personaly wouldnt feel great about my husband doing it, but if I wasnt having sex with him hardly at all and he wanted to call one to masturbate to, I wouldnt leave him over it. If it ran up a HUGE phone bill and/or he wanted to meet the girl he talked to on the line it Woukd be a problem. To me its just a step up from looking at porn, which I dont have a problem with my husband doing. Just curious... do you consider it cheating so much that you want a divorce?
2016-05-17 21:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES it is. Its the same as if you were having a physical affair. If you love someone and want to spend your life with them....you shouldnt need any of that crap. Not 800 & 900 numbers.....not online crap.....NOTHING!! None of it......put all that time and energy into the one you love and you will be much better off in the long run!
2007-04-11 07:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes I would agree it is. Cheating can be in many forms, and if you're questioning it, then it probably is. Ask yourself if you feel guilty about what you are doing, and how would you feel if the roles were reversed and you found out the other person in the relationship was participating in things like this?
2007-04-11 07:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Advice Needed 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes it is, and costly too, why should you call these numbers if you are married, ask yourself this, would I be mad if my spouse went behind my back calling 900 numbers, is it fair to my wife that i am spending this much money for cheap phone sex, cut the cost go by a magazine and hit the shower
2007-04-11 07:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on who you ask.
I had a similar experience with chat rooms. (Being flirted with, cyber-sex, etc. (My wife thought it was cheating)
over the last year I have polled dozens of people, and a common thread has emerged.
Women think (and believe) it's cheating
Men think (and believe) it is not cheating --comparing it to reading Playboy/Penthouse/ fantasizing/ etc.
So... If you ask a woman...the answer is YES
if you ask a guy.....the answer is NO
But if it is hurting or bothering your mate, you should stop. If only for that reason.
2007-04-11 07:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by Tazmaniack69 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, if you are in verbal contact. It is not the same as fantasizing about some chick in the shower whilst you pull the tug. Or pulling the tug to a porn site.
Physical acts, such as verbal is cheating.
2007-04-11 07:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by Charles B 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes it is..its a form of cheating because you are looking for satisfaction outside of your relationship..what is not cheating is checking out a girl on a street having thoughts sexually about them...its okay when you don't act on it ..pay attention to the word again ACT
2007-04-11 07:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by ♥queen b♥ 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You would rather whack off to a chick's voice than get the real thing from your wife...ya, that's cheating, cheating her out of being married to a decent guy.
I'll be waiting for my thumbs down loser...
2007-04-11 07:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by fiona 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋