i am going to court to get sole custody of my 6month old baby girl.... but in order to do that the father has to be there... i have gonne to court two times already and i get the same answer "we cannot proceed until the opposing party shows up or gets served....." but i dont know were he is i know that he is nearby, he calls and leaves me messages at lates hours of the night.... i dont know how to find him, because he has no ssn so that makes it harder,,, i tryed people that know him and people finder.com but nope.... help plese i would really appreciate it... thank you....
2007-04-11 06:38:49 · 14 answers · asked by *.:MrM:.* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you alerady have sole custody!
2007-04-11 06:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trace his number when he calls next time. At least you will know where he is at that moment. If he does not have a SSN then it makes sense that he is not in people finder.com. Then again if he does not have a SSN and has refused to come to court, I can not imagine how he could gain custody over you.
2007-04-11 13:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by djk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why was your little daughter taken from you in the first place?
Does the father have her now? You might have to employ a private investigator to find him, and that is expensive. First thing I'd do though, is get a consultation with an attorney to see if he or she can help.
2007-04-11 13:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW WOULD WE KNOW WHO HE IS
WERE YOU STUPID ENOUGH TO PUT HIS NAME ON THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE
Any way why are you bother since he does not seem to care either way why not let sleeping lie (literally)
I don't want to be insulting but what the hell did you get yourself pregnant by a DOG
for future references when you child ask who is her father just answer it was a SPERM DONOR that way you will sound more respectful to her
2007-04-11 23:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one yooh caould call the phone company and tell them about what time those calls are coming in on your answering machine an they can tell yooh what the number even if it is blocked but being an unmarried mother yooh should adumadically have sole custody of your daughter....well at least thats how it is in ohio so yooh kno...
2007-04-11 13:43:17 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not around then he's obviously not trying to get custody so why would you even need to go to court? You'd have to have his social security #
2007-04-11 13:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have caller id? If not, get it. When he calls, his phone # should come up. Then you should be able to see who has that phone #, and the address.
2007-04-11 13:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you get into this big mess . I don't know maybe contact an attorney to help you.
2007-04-11 13:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be a wonderful responsible mother if you can't even spell 'daddy'? Or use spell check responsibly? Or know where the babies 'dady' is?
Maybe your baby is better off where ever she is!
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2007-04-11 13:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to get a lawyer. If he's not letting you see your child then he could face legal reprocussions from him purposely withholding your child from you.
2007-04-11 13:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋