I mean everyone have the need to have a friend and confide...But you don't know whom to trust now days and everyone keeps telling you that you shouldn't trust...and keep your worries for yourself.
But can you live in that way? Without trusting no one?
2007-04-11 05:07:37 · 31 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sure, you can survive.
but i think it would be a hard life.
you will have a lot of times when people will hurt and disappoint you throughout your entire life, but if you continue on with an open heart, then the other's who hurt you, well, they haven't changed you then, they weren't that strong, .......and that is living well.
2007-04-11 05:11:42 · answer #1 · answered by The French Connection 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can survive without trusting anyone. It isn't the best way to survive but it is possible. It makes your life hard and a struggle at times to not let anyone near, so what I suggest is instead of not trusting anyone. Find that one person that you can trust I know it doesn't seem possible but I assure you that person is out there. Because I know I can't be the only trustworthy person in the world. It sounds as though you may be trustworthy also. I'm not saying finding that person is easy by no means but rather a challenge. But they are out there.
Don't let it rule you. Don't let it consume you. Live your life is my suggestion.
2007-04-11 12:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Chad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can. It isnt healthy and it will only leave you lonely and sad. i know. I have a hard time trusting anyone. I have to work on it though because I know that living the one life I have lonely and sad isnt much of a life. I wanna make the most of it so I have to open myself to new people. It is scary because it seems everyone will disappoint you nowadays.
Just try it with someone. Put yourself out there and take that leap because having a best friend is something everyone deserves.... and even needs i think.
2007-04-11 12:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can. But if that's all you do is just "survive" instead of live and love, what's the point? You have to decide that personal happiness is worth the risk of being hurt. Or you have to decide that it isn't. Either way, you live with the consequences.
People who tell you not to trust are people who have been hurt. But even they will come back to a desire to want to trust again and they probably will.
2007-04-11 12:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certainly not dude!! i felt that way until recently something happened to show me that i always make assumptions & wild accusations, when some ppl can be really honest & truthful ..
i became so cautious about trusting, becoz my ex cheated on me & it sorta shattered my whole self-esteem/my whole world, & i felt as u do.
my b/friend now has been nuttin but totally honest & open wit me, & i still felt like i could trust no-one & kept accusing/assuming things ...he is the best friend i have & he stood by my side ALWAYS, even though he knew how i felt about trusting him..he just understood wot i have been through & said, "only time wud heal those wounds & one day u will learn to trust & one day u wud see that i have been nuttin but honest with u always."
it all takes time to know the person & time to heal from the wounds that made U into the person who think u can trust no-one..
2007-04-11 12:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unhealthy and destructive. I suppose we could survive but be bitter and lonely people. I know someone like that in my life and it's so sad. On the other hand, many people aren't trustworthy anymore and I guess after being tricked so many times you just don't want to trust anyone anymore.
2007-04-11 12:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by VW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, becoz Man is gregarious by nature- we need others!
Agreed ul get deceived at least once in yr life, then ul start doubtin vry1, then ul start thinkin of nt trustin any1 any more, bt after sum time, the need to socialize will get more strong than eva, n ul start socialisin again!
Survivin is all abt keepin wots a threat to yr life at bay!!!
Ppl u cnt trust are undoubtedly potential danger!!!
Bt then stayin alert abt wots a threat to yr survival, all the time, wil eventually drain out all yr energy!
... then u wnt even hav time to "enjoy" bein "alive"!!!
Life comes wid its share of tricky situations! Its a fact n its the same for vrybody!
All u can do is face it, learn fr yr mistakes (abt whom to trust n whom nt to!), and rely on yr experiences to face the next challenge!
"Trust me!!!" Lolz
2007-04-11 12:29:51 · answer #7 · answered by Blossom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seven years so far it can be very lonely but consider 3 of my best friends screwed me over when I got divorced. I do not think I can trust again!
2007-04-11 14:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ivan S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we have to trust people and believe in them until they prove us wrong, BUT just don't go on telling all the little secrets, some things are better left unsaid :)
2007-04-11 12:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you were 100% healthy otherwise you'd have to trust a doctor to fix you
2007-04-11 12:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by Love always, Kortnei 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋