I am 20 years old and have a very long labia. It is so embarassing, It is long and can be seen through underwear/bathing suit bottoms. I am a virgin and do have a boyfriend. Everytime he goes to touch me in that area (with jeans on) I move his hand bc I am so self concious. I am afraid that when I do decide to sleep with him, he is going to be so turned off. I dont know how it could not bother a guy when I can barely look in the mirror. Should I have surgery?
2007-04-11 03:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Women's labias, just like our bodies, come in all sizes and shapes—there is no one standard. I don't know, who you are comparing yourself to because there is only one of you.
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2007-04-11 05:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly when you go to sleep with your boyfriend for the first time he is probably not going to be concentrating on it, he'll probably be all hot and bothered just thinking about the sex, if it really bothers you that much then you could consider getting the surgery, but if I were you I would wait and see how you feel after having sex with him, and you probably notice it more because your self conscious about it, if nobody else has noticed it then it probably it is probably not as bad as you think. I would really research the procedure as well. Good luck!
2007-04-11 11:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by NurseB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. They come in all shapes and sizes and there's nothing wrong with longer ones. longer ones are actually more fun to perform oral on, and they look cool how they cling to your mahood when you pull out, LOL. If you're that concerned with them you could try gaining weight. Fat girls cover theirs up really well, skiny girls tend to hang out more. I would say don't get a labiaplasty though, it's just not that big of a deal. Plus a lot of girls have distorted self images of their vagina, it's not supposed to look attractive to you, but your boyfriend will love it, trust me.
Also, in some cultures women actually stretch out their lips because to them long lips are attractive. It's all in the head of the person looking at them, and like I was saying, you're just being self critical looking at your own, which is normal, but your guy is not going to look at or touch them and be turned off by their length, I can guarantee you that.
2007-04-11 10:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you start becoming more sexually ative before making that decision. Your labia will stretch as you become more sexually active and have a baby. Labia are there for a reason anyhow, they are there to protect the vaginal opening...Besides, the surgery is $4000.
2007-04-11 13:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let your partner be the judge. You shouldnt be so self concious about it. Personally I think log labia are sexy and love to suck on them whilst I am downstairs. Good luck.
2007-04-11 11:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by ryder204_jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really that damaging to your self confidence, then you should at least consult with a doctor.
I had something I was not happy with in my appearance and I had cosmetic surgery, and it really improved my life and confidence, even though all my friends and family tried to talk me out of the surgery.
2007-04-11 10:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by James B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your roast beef curtains. Totally get them hacked off. Nobody likes dangling lips.
2007-04-13 19:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sara B 1 · 1⤊ 5⤋