i have a cousin who is so deluded in her husband and although he is such an ugly **** with no personality, she has this idea that i want to steal him. hello, like there aren't other good looking men in this goddamn world. sheesh.
2007-04-11 02:41:45 · 10 answers · asked by bumble bee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ha ha, i know who you are, get off this site you imposter or im gonna tell mum. lol and hell yeah, he is ugly. i agree. it is cos she is deluded to. happy woman, making me write so much. im gonna get you after work.
2007-04-11 02:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by LOTR Fan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
*You're SeXy...and she is green with envy!*
-I would be flattered if I were you, but at the same time I can understand why you are also irritated too.
~But a lot of girls are just like that, some girls are confident and emotionally independent and carry themselves well. Other girls...well...not so much, they're not confident and emotionally dependent on guys etc. Which your cousin sounds like one of those girls who is "dependent" "insecure" and totally over rationalizes a situation and over dramatizes it as well.
*So there is not much you can really do, because you cannot help that you have a stunning personality or good looks. It is not your fault, that is who you are. But my best advice is to let her know (again) that you are NOT interested in her guy, and that she is over-reacting and making a big deal about nothing. And if she STILL does not believe you, then tell her that is her own damn problem...and she will have to deal with it, because you have told her the truth and there is nothing more to say about it.
**And you are right, there are PLENTY of other good looking guys in this world, so you have no reason to set out to steal hers. So yeah she is crazy. And it sounds like she has little or no self-esteem at the same time.**
*Well I hope everything works out, and you quit getting accused of something you're not doing...and would never think of doing!*
2007-04-11 04:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is way to broad to say that ALL married women are like that- many are not. It's just insecurity- married men are the same way. Some single men and women are that way too so don't base your opinion just off of your cousin because that is very narrow minded.
2007-04-11 02:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by NLH823 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if other women think my husband is attractive. I take it as a compliment. I'm proud when other women look at him. If they try to seduce him or actually hit on him, that's a different story, but that is very disrespectful and immoral if they know he is married. But I don't want my husband gawking at other women like a dirty pig. He is supposed to be dedicated to me. I'm saying noticing another woman is wrong. There is a fine line between just thinking "she's attractive" and "look at those knockers!"
2007-04-11 03:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the solution:
Avoid to look and to talk to that man
Talk with your cousin sincerely and show her what you think about her visions and imaginations.
Frequently, a married man is much more interesting than others (singles),but that is another subject.
2007-04-11 02:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems to be a problem your cousin is having. Just because she is a married woman with this problem doesn't mean all married woman feel this way.
2007-04-11 02:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by ╚╔╩╦ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its either too confident or lack of security of the man they loved. As guys it is our responsibility to instill that self discipline within ourselves without the wives wary of us.
2007-04-11 02:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are convinced that their husbands will have sex with anyone who merely looks at them, thus the consternation
2007-04-11 02:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like it when other women look at my husband. Then I look at them like,"too bad you can't have him...he's mine."
2007-04-11 02:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's just paranoid. Overlook it!
2007-04-11 02:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋