I have ask him if he talks to other girls on the messenger... he always say no... I want to let him know his lying.
2007-04-11 02:38:39 · 10 answers · asked by Gata Salvaje 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't beat around the bush and drag it out. If you have proof, confront him and ask him again. If your serious about breaking up over it, tell him that is the end result if he lies to you again. If he lies again, present the proof and send him on his way.
Better to end it before marriage. That way your not carrying around the ugly divorce baggage, and possibly dealing with a custody issue if you did get married and have kids.
If he's chatting, it will only get worse as the temptations get stronger.
2007-04-11 03:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation. Just be upfront & tell him how you found out. Show him your proof. Most likely he's going to get mad but at least he'll know you're not stupid as he thinks you are. Don't let him get away with it because those small things can turn into bigger things like actually meeting the girls and cheating. Good luck.
2007-04-11 04:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jocelyn's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a keystroke logger. It records everything a person does online, including messenger conversations. Just be prepared to act on what you find.
2007-04-11 02:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's not that smart and never let it be said that you were the last to find out. Show him the proof that you know he's lying.
2007-04-11 03:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOw are u going to let him know he is lying? lol.. hahaha he already KNOWS he is lying. Who cares. You probably talk to guys too.. and how old are the two of you anyways?? As long as he is not talking about dirty things then dont sweat it...
2007-04-11 02:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ B1tchHere ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know the girl that he messengers . use her phone or comp to send him a messege to meet her at a private place for sex . then show up and well you know what to do then . good luck .
2007-04-11 05:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by northernwolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have proof print it out so it's in black and white, but don't let him know how you found it, show it to him and ask him to explain it to you.
2007-04-11 02:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by ╚╔╩╦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. If it's just that...and that's all, no big deal! Look I'm a guy and now your talking to me....better let him know!
2007-04-11 02:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by Chad S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf do that also everytime i ask him he answer no!one time i check his messenger i saw the message archieves it records all the text....i know he lie.......try that dnt tell him just observe him then prove to him what you saw
2007-04-11 02:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by sweetypink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
have proof, confront him with the lies
oh and if he LIES now, he WILL later...
2007-04-11 02:41:46 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋