my husband tells me that having his friend drink alcohol in my truck won't effect him or me.?

Question

I teel him that I don't approve of it, and that because it can get us both in a lot of trouble. Am I worrying for nothing or do I have a right to. Also, my truck is a business truck, with business insurance.

Now he tells me that he won't alow it, just so I get my way. He says that I won't be happy unless I always get my way. Is this his way of blowing it off? I also think that he is still going to continue to let it happen, he is just going to be more sneaky about it. He has lied to me in the past and the recent one was just last weekend. He tells me everytime that I need to trust him and that he is working on changing.I try to tell him that everytime he lies to me or hides something no matter how little it is that it puts me back to square one. He says he can take the fact that I question him.

Answer 1

I agree with the other post about the open container law. He could get in a lot of trouble and bring you down with him. It could cause problems with your insurance and mess things up the business. Please show your husband these posts if he doesn't believe you. You're not crazy to worry about this. Good luck.

Answer 2

ya you could get you into a lot of trouble....what would your boss think if they found out??? i know when someone took my car with out asking when i was asleep and the 42 year old woman had a 17 year old drunk and high driving around i was sooooo mad!!!!!! i almost flipped out.....because if they crashed it what would i do i wouldent be able to get to and from work or go do what i want to do....and they would care less if i couldent go or do anything......so the only one how would loose is me....and the stupidest part is she had her car sitting right next to mine.....with a full tank of gas....she saw my keys and decided she dident want to chance anything hapening to her car or waste her gas.....and they burned ciggaret holes in the roof..... and now i have to drive around with that crap....and i dont even smoke.....have him buy his own car.....and it will effect him the man i used to babysit for said the exact same thing....he thought he was fine...he did 6 months in jail he always said no that wont happen to me....and i had a few friends get killed in a drinking and driving accedent....4 diff times... and my grandmother when she was younger her boyfriend was driving drunk was driving to fast but did not realize it and he hit and killed a 2 year old baby, the baby flew up and slid up the windsheild and they saw the whole thing and they hit something and she lost all her teeth at the age 14......it was bad...its not worth it really......

Answer 3

Open container, anyone drinking while a car in motion can get the driver in trouble.

My husband was pulled over one time hadn't drank that day they decided to search his car and underneath the passenger seat was a bone dry open beer can from months before. He got a ticket for $500.

Answer 4

I think most states have open container laws. It doesn't even matter if they guy is drinking, just having the open container is enough to get you in trouble.

Answer 5

If police find an open bottle of liquor it's off to jail and you have a record. Also insurance problems.

Answer 6

If you want the job and company truck, you best keep the drinking friend out!

Answer 7

Three words dear....Open Container Law.

Answer 8

if you get pulled over and that person is drinking in the car you can get in trouble for it because it's an open container. i would not let him drink alcohol in your car.

Answer 9

your husband's a liar... you should use your better judgment and ban him and his friend from your car before you get pulled in, and thrown in jail for having an open container of liquor.

Answer 10

No alcohol during work. Insist on it