If you want to find out what happened to you and why you ended up gay, then just ask your therapist...or an overly-friendly priest.
But it's ok to be gay in this day and age, so don't worry...you'll find a date, once you figure out if you're a top or a bottom. My guess is you like it on the bottom...and rough (nasty boy).
2007-04-11 03:28:59
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answered by no_good_names_left_17 3
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i dont know whether you are making this observation because you want to justify homosexuality, but by the way you used the term 'homo' im guessing you are not their biggest fan.
lemme tell you a story. i had a girlfriend a few years ago. neither she nor i have been abused, sexually or otherwise.
if it turns out that a gay individual was abused as a child, that's incidental. and quite unfortunate, and they should be supported.
it has happened that a woman that has been raped, might turn to another woman for companionship, simply because her utmost hatred and fear of men cannot see her getting in a relationship with a man. of course, that's her choice. im sure the same can happen with a guy.
realising that homosexuality is not a disease, mental illness or rebellious act, that can be cured, medicated, therapied, or beaten out, is the first step to seeing the light.
they are human beings, and you might want to do a bit of research, and see that homosexuality has only become a 'sin' in the past few hundred years, since the roman priests decided that should be so, at the same time they decided what status jesus should have, and which books to include in the bible.
loving any human being, being it your sex or the opposite, is as natural as breathing. is it society that tells you its wrong. have you ever seen a baby or child being a homophobe? its because they are blessedly unaware of what society deems to be correct, and just takes what their heart is telling them, and loves all equally.
maybe if there was more love, and less hate, then people might not need to commit crime to make themselves feel better.
2007-04-11 09:48:37
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answered by african_woman 3
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early exposure to sex/sexuality profoundly changes the very structure of the brain. some people turn gay, or rather , realize their orientation due to this one traumatic exprience, when the individual in question may be as hetero as the day is long.
2007-04-15 02:37:35
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answered by pepperhead 2
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First of all, statistics prove that this is not the case, at all. But, from your attitude it appears that you are afraid of exactly what you attack, most likely because you are strongly drawn to people who are of the same gender as you. If you weren't turned on by them, they wouldn't scare you. Relax and just be who you are. It's okay
2007-04-11 09:50:39
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answered by John B 7
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I suggest focusing on improving your mind and spirit through education, rather than making judgments regarding subjects of which you know nothing.
2007-04-11 09:24:11
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answered by BooBooKins 5
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