the relationships i am having even thou they seem to all end.
i dont like all my relationships to end . i am looking for a marriage the will last the rest of my life.ive never actually been married .tell me ways to find a woman whp will stand by me regardless of anything. well thats what im looking for . ide enjoy hearing from you.thank you and God bless you.
2007-04-11 01:30:50 · 6 answers · asked by vanstone_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you a christian ? then you need to ask the LORD
for HIS will for you . It wouldn't be easy if you do it yourself .
I'm not really sure if you're serious thou, cos if you are i don't
think this is your site,
I can give you some sites if you want you just have to email
me as i don't want to put the site here.
I wonder how old are you.
Good luck .
.
2007-04-11 01:42:01 · answer #1 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating to me is like interviewing for a job. The "job" here is a marriage and hopefully you will have sorted out the wrong women for you. During these "interviews", you need to be finding out whether your dates have the same goals in life as you. Do they want a family? What is their religious conviction? Will you be raising a family within the church? Do you share some common interests, hobbies, etc. Are you able to be mutually respectful to each other? Can you talk to each other about everything? Lead with your brain and not just your heart when you are looking for a life partner.
2007-04-11 08:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what I have learned, is that before you can find love, you need to learn to love yourself. Which can be very hard. I had to come out of a depression that I had ever since I was seven. And when I finally decided that I was just going to be happy and have fun, then guys all around started to notice me and I was getting compliments and dating offers. It just goes to show that happiness and confidence is attractive. You musn't worry about finding a date or being single, your main priority must be yourself then that one person that will love you for you, will be able to see the real you. I found my one true love within a month of coming out of my depression and we are getting married on June 9th of '07. Remember to love your self, it is the first step to finding love. Good luck and have fun!
2007-04-11 09:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by scareforce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I got married I thought it would be for life. That is how marriage is suppose to be. I tried for 37-1/2 years to make it work. But you can only stand so much. I put up with years of unfaithfulness, years of lies, years of cheating,years of playing second fiddle behind his mother. Years of him not working , but buying everything he wanted and the children and I came behind him on all our wants . I stood beside him when he lost two jobs for stealing, I stood behind him when he was ill, yet would not stop drinking and smoking. I stood behind him for several affairs. But it did not change him. You are the one you can change and make yourself happy. Don't depend on someone else for your happiness.
God has helped me deal with my failed marriage. This is not what I wanted in my life either, but you have to live with what life has dealt you. Good luck and God bless.
2007-04-11 08:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have realationships that end. Tome a realationship is a time spent with someone to see how you want your real husband or wife to be. When you are really cosidering a husband or wife you put all those good qualities to gether and then u try to find your wife or husband
2007-04-11 08:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arn't we all
2007-04-11 08:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋