quite a while ago my sister said to my partner she fancied him he told me straight away she was drunk at the time but this has caused alot of problems in my famliy she denies it but i know what shes like my partner doesnt want me to talk to her i feel stuck in the middle what should i do.
2007-04-11 00:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get mad..
2007-04-11 01:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have it out with her - do you really want this hanging over you? Why do you think your partner doesn't want you to talk to her about it - are you worried he might not be telling the truth and that he's made it up? I think you need to speak to your sister and try and clear the whole thing up. It's better to have a big bust up to get over the issue and have everything sorted rather than leave it bubbling away under the surface, especially if other family members are getting involved too. Just be truthful with your sister over the issues you have, explain you know she'd been drinking but you don't appreciate her behaviour.
2007-04-11 07:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being drunk that does cause a problem as theres a good chance she means it and was hoping he said it back and she would have seduced him.
in a way she was very inconciderate as she knows you are with him and she really cant ''go there''.
but sounds like she said this to try make a move on him.
i'd confront her about this as she was out of order. she would have said this for two reasons, she was drubk and just wanted to have a quickie, or she really does mean it and said it drunk so if he doesnt respond she can blame it on drink and secretly does like your fella.
your fella sounds trusting to tell you this- even though its your sister. either ask her if she does so you can work at something so you occasionally see her and she will grow out of this obsassion or just keep away from her.
last thing you want it you and your fella rubbing it in her face if she does like him. you never know- this might have just been a drunken thing to see if he responds.
2007-04-15 03:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a chat with her. Tell her you know she was drunk at the time, so you are willing to let it go. Keep it light hearted but tell her that if you heard she said something like that again, drunk or not, there would be trouble. Make it quite clear that your boyf is with you, and is not interested.
BTW, if she denies it, why are you so sure that it is not your boyf stirring things up between you? Just a thought.
2007-04-11 07:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by louloubelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is unacceptable he is with you and not her and she needs to find her own partner and leave yours alone. Talk to her about how this makes you feel and that as your sister she has no right to say those things to him and how would she feel if you did this to her. Blood is thicker than water and she needs to know that this is not how a sister acts to another sister
2007-04-11 07:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky one.if you can put it behind you she was drunk we all do stupid things when we are drunk!!just be grateful you have a partner which you can trust, i get the impression you can trust him as he told you straight away, if he was guilty hed try and hide it
2007-04-11 07:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your sister away from the partner.
2007-04-14 21:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an eye on your sister!
2007-04-11 07:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has this happened before? if so i would strongly think this though as she is your sis but she should have not done this to begin with this is one that only you can sort hope you can good luck xx
2007-04-14 13:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by pinky xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit them both down together perhaps, and explain how your feeling.. its not fair on you! good luck :) xx
2007-04-11 08:21:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋