2007-04-10 23:47:21 · 28 answers · asked by nowingme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he's using u for sex.
2007-04-10 23:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is looking for a reason to cheat and have his cake and eat it too. Tell him if he does not love you anymore and does not want to work on the problems in your marriage that make him feel this way he needs to get out and get a divorce because you will not give him sex and live in one roof with soemone who does not love you. He does not want to live and maybe trying to get you to leave boot his *** out the door
2007-04-11 07:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out why he doesn't love you?
At least he doesn't hate you, since you still have sex.
Love is not the only reason to keep marriage.
You should maintain communication, have a vacation for a week and get back to each other.
Change your look and attitude just don't give up.
2007-04-11 07:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by W_egy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair of him to use you by expecting sex from you when he says he doesn't love you anymore. Either you and he try to resolve your problems, with or without professional counseling, or separate. If he can't afford to move out, he should at least be sleeping in another room.
2007-04-15 01:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you for sex until he finds a replacement. Show him the door and don't allow him to have sex with you. How low is your self esteem to allow this? Do you think by giving him sex he will change and love you again?
2007-04-11 06:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never have sex with my husband if he told me he didn't love me. Just the thought of it would make me puke, no different than if he was having an affair. I would slowly end the marriage.
2007-04-15 01:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by Susie L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't love u anymore, and has the nerve to tell u this, he really isn't too concerned about the marriage. maybe u need to stop having sex with him, could he be cheating on u?
2007-04-11 12:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only using you for sex. Kick his sorry bottom out (or move, if it's his house) as soon as you can. Regardless of your situation, you don't deserve to be put through that sort of thing, ever.
2007-04-11 07:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by xian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you and it sounds like he wants all the benefits of being married but not the commitment! You deserve better than that ,so kick his butt out and find a real man who will love you and treat you right !! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-11 07:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by linda bug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not still having sex, YOUR STILL HAVING SEX! Like everyone is saying, he's using you and your letting him. Get rid of the geek and move on.
2007-04-11 07:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u both still under the same roof ..looks like u are enjoyin the sex.. why dont u stop it.. if it bothers
2007-04-11 07:12:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋